Where Do Pro-Dommes Advertise? Want To Go To Oral Sex Night? Beware Of Eden!

Life is going by so quickly - how did it get to be the middle of October already?  I haven’t had much time to do anything but work, which is a good thing!  No complaints from me on that one.  I am juggling a lot of projects, but project management is something I am very good at.  Today I spent part of my day contacting professional dommes - you see I have this theory based on experience as a professional dominatrix - that finding good advertising is really difficult.  Sure, you can pay some directory to list you with 50 other ladies offering the same thing you are or you can throw an ad up on Craigslist and hope for the least sleazy responses possible, or even just throw up a web page and hope someone finds you - or you could place an ad on Fetlife, target it towards men in your area, and BAM!  You have a self-selected demographic of men interested in BDSM at your feet.  So my goal has been to contact other professional dominatrices, dominas, dommes, ladies, and Goddesses and try to put the word out to them.  There are sure a hell of a lot of us!  It’s keeping me very busy.

Aside from that I’ve been working on Rachel Kramer Bussel’s press release for her Oral Sex Night at In The Flesh Erotic Reading Series in NYC - writing and formatting it was easy - sending it to hundreds of contacts individually one by one with an attachment takes time.  PR hint: Don’t send out press releases as a batch or group - it will hit spam filters and then you’ve just wasted a good contact.  If they are worth contacting, contact them individually.  So I spent several hours working on that project.

Soon I’m going to start posting the Butterfly Temptress’ series on BestSexBloggers.com.  I’ve alluded to it before it, directed people to it where it was originally posted (on EF’s blog) but EdenFantasys has really let a bunch of us down lately and it seems they have turned their back on her project, along with several other important projects.  It’s a shame, they have really lost the respect of the blogger community after rescinding their offer to sponsor the printing of the NYC Sex Blogger Calendar project and then refusing to pay AAG for the hours she put in for them before they terminated her.  I would be very careful in entering into any agreement with EdenFantasys.  It is one affiliate program I would not recommend.  If you’re looking for a good toy company, go with VibeReview.com.

I’m off now - I’m looking for a cheap ticket to visit Butterfly Temptress for a slumber party before going to NYC for the calendar launch party (did I mention I’m excited about going to NYC?!?!).  Diva suggested looking at train prices, so I’m going to wrap it up and find a cheap way to get where I need to go.