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July 6th, 2008 — Advice, Altered Aperture, Blogs, Erocrush, Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com), My Filthy Mind, Quid Pro Quo, Stuff and Things, Text Messages, Weight Loss
This post is crazy long today - fair warning!
Life is boring and it’s exciting at the same time. I kind of do the same thing day after day yet it’s pretty exciting! I started trying to write sexual fantasies in Spanish, but the reality is that my Spanish isn’t really such that I know all the best sexy slang. I guess I have a new challenge.
I talked to my friend last night, the hot little 23-year-old teacher that I used to work with, on text. We hung out for the first time in a long time the other night and got all fucked up. He knew about part of my secret life while we were teaching together, but not all of it. Now that we are no longer co-workers, I let him in on a few more secrets. It all happened because he asked me what i was doing for a living now that I’m not teaching and I mentioned being a PR and Marketing consultant, which led to a discussion of my client list, which led to the inevitable question on my part, “once you see the links to my blogs there is no going back.” But he is a consenting adult and so he now knows. How much he knows and what he’s read, I have no idea, but I do really value having true friends who know the true you and not just the social mask you present to most of your friends.
So anyway, it changes things a bit that we don’t work together anymore and that I’m a professional sex writer, worker, and promoter. It doesn’t change things like all of a sudden I gave him the best head of his life, though that has crossed my mind. He and I already had a perverted friendship to begin with, so it just really is a new level of perversion that we share in common. Kind of nice, really. I have a flirting fetish.
So last night I texted him to find out if he was going to go work out today (Sunday) because I wanted to go running, but instead he says he’s going to Mass and then to brunch. Okay, I forgot that even though he’s a perverted little man that he is a good little Catholic boy. So I said something about six different responses I started to his text but they were all too filthy. So he asked me to send them anyway. Again… “Are you sure? Are you sober?” LOL. Seriously. I don’t appreciate it when people can only be sexual when drunk. So again I realize he’s just being a little naughty. So okay. I play along. Now I have to try to remember them all.
- Number 1: To sneak off somewhere during mass, one at a time, discreetly, to a place where nobody where nobody would think to look (why would we even be there, nobody would be looking). A simple lift of the dress and quick fuck and back into mass just as casually and just as discreetly, but with a very naughty secret.
- Number 2: To park far enough away from the church that you could have a quick blow job in the car and I would go into church tasting cum on my lips.
- Number 3: To take the nice little Catholic boy and turn him into a filthy slut who has no purpose other than to satisfy me.
- Number 4: To have hot sex that morning before leaving so that while you’re sitting there in church there is cum dripping out of me into my panties and the subtle scent of my pussy on your fingers.
(He texts, “That’s four by my count, keep going.”)
- Number 5: To be sitting around at brunch with all the nice churchgoing people while messing around with each other under the tablecloth while keeping a straight face.
- Number 6: To give you a reason to confess next week after thinking such filthy thoughts about a married woman.
- Bonus 7: Because I’m competitive and I love cum and know that I am good at what I do. I figure you’re 23 and so you’ve never had anything like me. Nobody you’ve ever slept with has ever sucked your cock the way I would and we both know that.
- Bonus 8: It would make all the rumors from school that we were fucking true, which is hot.
So we met up for brunch today. It was fun, kind of like old times eating together at school. I watch him devour thousands of calories while I freak out over how many I am eating. I give him half of my food and take a bite of his, no matter what it is. Wait. WTF?! I didn’t get a taste of his food today. Now he owes me! It is nice to be able to be perverted with friends and not have it be weird. I like that about my friends.
Let’s see, what else? I set up Nikki’s Altered Aperture gallery on Google Photo. It’s nice to be able to upload galleries, set them as unlisted, and then send someone the auth key to get into the album. I like Google for a lot of reasons, despite their invasion of privacy that they don’t even try to deny. I also used Google Photo to make an album to send to my cookie friend to see if I can get a couple of new banners made for me. He’s a pro and it’s so obvious in his work. I love to fantasize about my friends. I should write a new fantasy for my cookie friend one of these days.
I had a nice talk with Melvin about coming to Charlotte. I really want him to do my first set of nudes and I really want him to shoot a scene with MDS and I. He’s the perfect person to do it in my mind. Then I talked to Nikki about shooting with Melvin - he should shoot her, she should shoot him, they should both shoot me (of course), and Nikki also talked about lining up some models she knows and doing a shootout, which I think must mean that they both shoot the same model at the same time from different angles. Since neither of them seem like gun people or John Wayne, I think that must be what it means. Anyway, Melvin would be coming to Charlotte as our guest and would stay with us in our home and hopefully will also join us in our cozy, comfy bed, if even just to hang out comfortably. Who knows what else… Melvin has a Sir and I have to watch myself from trying to make him Mine.
I came up with a genius idea for a new blog today and now I just have to implement it (buy the domain and set it up). I can’t let the cat out of the bag yet, but you’ll soon hear about it. I’m also working on the Quid Pro Quo website, which will soon be moved from WordPress to its own .com domain. I am going to make a static page for each of our clients and I think it would be nice to blog about it from time to time as well. I have amazing experiences and conversations with people that others dream of talking to. It’s good stuff. I’m leaving everything as a draft at this point until we move it to it’s dot com address. It’s soooooo much work to move an established blog. Just don’t make that mistake. Learn from my earlier mistakes. Patience over Populating Your Blog if you have any plans to move it at all.
That’s my Sunday. It’s 6:25 pm. Busy day. How was your day? The image is from Postsecret.com, which you should read every Sunday - it’s one of my favorite days of the week because of Postsecret!
July 5th, 2008 — Blogs, Bondage, Erocrush, FetLife, January Seraph, Lochai, Masturbation, Recommendations, Shopping, The Good Things List, Toys, Websites
This week’s Good Things List is brought to you by the letter V (for valium) and the number 10 (for the dose)… and readers like you! (PS: JOIN FETLIFE!)
A Good Blog To Read
Narration by D is this week’s blog pick. D is the counterpart of another of my favorite blogs Thursday’s Child. It says in his profile: “From the male perspective, the exploration of a young married couple beyond vanilla sex.” D is in my BILF list. His wife is also in my BILF list. They as a couple are in my BILF list. Now we just have to figure out how to get into the same state and city!
A Good Toy
I have just gotten my new shipment of toys to review for Vibe Review and I haven’t even formally reviewed it yet on my blog, but so far I can tell you that I adore the Cyberglass Felicity. I have just recently gotten into glass/pyrex dildos and this one is a perfect starter because of the low price. You can warm it under some hot water in the sink or you can cool it in the refrigerator for a while (it comes in a nice case, by the way!). You can use either end, you can play with it vaginally or anally. I just love it! Vibe Review happens to be a great company to do business with - a classy online toy company that has a good reputation. That matters!
A Good Photographer
Erocrush. Melvin Moten, Jr. is Erocrush. His work is special to me. He is special to me. I consider him a very good friend. He allows me to use his images all the time on my blogs. I know that you have enjoyed them. Like Lochai, who I’m in love with, Melvin isn’t shooting for the porn content market. He shoots fetish and erotic art that he enjoys. With real women, that he enjoys. With real couples. One thing I noticed about Melvin’s work is that his models obviously feel so natural with him that they forget he’s even there. It’s as though you’re actually there, in the scene, a voyeur. I love Melvin. I want Melvin to shoot me. With any luck at all, this fall, he will. Then I will have my way with him! If you click on the (perfect) image in this post (by Erocrush) it will magically take you to his site. Fear not! It will open in a new window and you won’t lose the Good Things List!
A Good Pay Site
Inescapable Bondage is January Seraph’s new content site. She has been shooting their own content like crazy. She and her hotter than hell partner-in-crime, Smutty, have been violating all kinds of men and women. This is Brand Spanking New! January isn’t, of course. She’s got a great reputation as a top model and actress already, but this site is so new that you’re probably the first one you know to see it!
A Good Blogger Resource
The Week In Kink. Duh. I sat here and tried to think about this one for a while and then I realized, if you’re a good blogger and you have good posts, then you should send me a little note. Each week I go through blogs that I like and pick the hottest posts and then publish them on TheWeekInKink.Com. I just want to be clear that I’m not trying to compete with Sugasm. It’s not a democracy - it’s just a list of my top favoritest, hottest, made me want to masturbate posts. :)
A Good Group
It’s widely known that I love FetLife. I’m an official greeter there now, which makes me feel extra special. What makes me feel super, duper special, though, is starting a new Charlotte Kinksters group (it’s called Charlotte, NC - The Queen of Kink, since we are the Queen City!) If you join FetLife you can join the Charlotte Kinky group. The idea is that we could all get together for informal gatherings and have a little community here that isn’t quite as formal as CAPEX.
A Good Alternative Education Resource/CommUNITY Source
This is the place to go to find professional alternative educators, presenters, event planners, vendors, dm/security/medical, legal, volunteers, and more. Everybody claims to be a sex educator, but this group is truly respected within the commUNITY as the leaders in their fields. Now, you can learn from them. Oh, it’s no coincidence you’ll find Lochai there. Wouldn’t you die to take a bondage class with Lochai? Oh my… You can also take classes with people like Claire Adams. OMG. I’m in heaven.
July 4th, 2008 — Blogs, Bondage, Collars, Domination, Fetish, Lochai, Masturbation, Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com), Mz. Berlin, Recommendations, The Week In Kink, Toys
[This beautiful image is of Narration by D. I can't even begin to express how much I want him.]
And please take a few minutes to check out the great posts at True Grime.
So there you have it. The Week In Kink with a few new friends on the
July 3rd, 2008 — Altered Aperture, Blogs, Stuff and Things, Updates
I’ve gotten really busy working on our PR and Marketing business, as we’ve taken on new clients and I’m taking on new personal projects like product reviews, a book writing deal, and and modeling. With all the additional work that I have to do, I am interested in finding a group of writers that would like to be contributing authors or guest bloggers for our network of blogs.
If you would like to be considered for this opportunity, please leave a comment or send me an email (catalinaloves at gmail dot com). I would still write my own reviews, posts, etc., but every once in a while I would be looking for someone to take over for a day.
I look for classy, yet sexy writing that is well-edited. Content is really up for discussion.
xo,
Catalina
PS: Photography by Altered Aperture
July 1st, 2008 — Bitching, Blogs, Coldplay, FetLife, Masturbation, Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com), Quid Pro Quo, Satine Phoenix, Stuff and Things, The Week In Kink, Toys, Updates, Websites
It’s no secret that I’m an insomniac. Once someone even titled me an insomniatic. I liked him. We had good talks in the middle of the night. It’s a shame that things ended the way they did.
Ok, so enough of that. Today has been an extremely busy day. I moved (with the help of my dear friend Edward at Exjinn Networks) The Week In Kink.com, SatinesBlog.com (not yet live), and soon we’ll be moving Quid Pro Quo PR, which is currently hosted on Wordpress.com. It’s a lot of work to move a blog. You can usually back up your data files, but bookmarks and widgets and links are just gone. *poof*
Aside from that, I had to go through all of the other blogs (10 of them) and add links to the blogrolls and also to the about pages. What a pain in the arse. I live for this shit though. I actually love the details of it. I get off on it. So I’m bitching, but here I sit happily doing it.
I’ve just found out that I am an official FetLife Greeter. I’m a friendly soul, and I’m friendly in multiple languages, so I think I’ll do a good job for them. Besides, I like to be special. I’m like the head FetLife Cheerleader these days. I think John may be worried that I’m trying to take over his empire, but in fact, I’m just trying to take in his empire. (Ha ha, I make wit der sex puns).
I think I have masturbated about eight times since opening my new box from VibeReview.com. I masturbated with Marky D. Sade last night (which ended up in him watching me play with all of my toys). I masturbated alone in the early morning. I masturbated again right after that. And then MDS came home and I masturbated (and fucked him) again! I’m really loving this new batch of toys!!!!
I have tried out the Iris, the Cyberglass Felicity, The Magnificent Vibrating Glove (mine came in fuschia, by the way), The Stubby G, and even the lube! The only thing I haven’t tried yet is the new corset harness, which I’m pretty excited about. By the way, they spell it Corsette Harness if you are searching for it.
Alright, so aside from being Wile E. Coyote, Superblogger and Masturbatrix extraordinaire, I have gotten some normal people things done. I reorganized my sex toy drawers and washed the covers on the Liberator wedge/ramp combo. I was wanting to wash them, dry them, and replace the covers before I finish my official review of the product. I am really hoping that the next thing I receive from Liberator is the Black Label Esse. It seems so perfectly perfect. It would be such a debate. Should we fuck on the Wedge/Ramp combo tonight or on the Esse? What?! The bed? How novel!
Hmmmm. What else? I have started to re-nest my love nest. Now that our baby is three, it’s time to re-claim our space. So I’ve been nesting around a bit. Before we had the baby, W was not allowed in our room except for very special occasions. Now it seems like our bedroom is our family room so it’s time to lay down the law. Pretty easy, since W is still in Oregon. She is still miserable. This is the year that she has decided to hate her stepmonster. I keep quiet about it, believe it or not, and tell her to mind her manners. One of the few things that I think my mother did right was to never badmouth my father (though he deserved it several times.) To this day, she does not say a negative word about him. I think that’s the way it should be. I play by those rules anyway.
I’m starting to upload live shows to ColdplayLiveArchive.com with a detailed review of each show. I’m still figuring out a few things, but soon there will be more Coldplay than you can shake a stick at, and Chris Martin will send me an email begging me for my extensive live collection. He will fly here in his private jet, take me out to dinner at Blue, my favorite restaurant, and I will deliver his stack of DVD’s to him as I suck his cock underneath the tablecloth. I just know it :)
Well, that seems like a perfect way to end today’s journal entry. I hope you enjoy the idea of Chris Martin lovingly feeding me his cock for dinner as much as I do.
July 1st, 2008 — Altered Aperture, Blogs, Photos, Sugasm
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #139? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form.
This Week’s Picks
You’re going to come for me.
“I imagined her, bound. Wrists behind her back, whimpering.”
Champagne Orgasms
“I cry out, begging for him to stop, begging him not to”
Tie one on
“He slipped his hands under my blouse and teased my nipples and breasts with his strong hands.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice
The Look
More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Cream
Cunt Sucking. Confession #75
Dirty Girl
The education of Ava
Foot fantasy
Fucking the blonde on the beach-2
Good slave
Homework
lolidoll’s Ass Inspired Poetry - HNT
The picture that launched a thousand…….sperm
Questions and Answers
Spin The Bottle - Part Two
The Tutor
The Wrath Of Eve
Sex & Politics
Existential Crisis, or There is a Cum Shot At the End of This Post
BDSM & Fetish
Alas, still not enough
BDSM & Race
Chain
A good deed
Hard OTK bare ass spankings of naughty girls!
Hot Night
I Slapped Her Face With My Cock And Coated Her Tits With Hot Wax
I Was Naked When I Wrote This
A jagged soft puzzle
The Lilith Obsession, Part the Third
Mojada, castigada y humillada…
Panties for Men
Punishment in the Woods
Reclaimed.
A scene in two parts.
Trying To Understand Pain & Sexual Arousal, As Well As Unwanted Emotions From Certain Types Of Play
Watershed: She Takes Command
We finally get to really play again
Would the Real Mistress Please Stand Up?
Yellow, Black, and Red
You can be a PIG!
Sex Work
Back From The Desert. Kumi Kumi Coco Puff
Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Bondage Model Carly Parker In One Of The Hottest Hogtied Sessions I’ve Seen
Catalina loves Lochai (An Interview With The Award Winning Photographer and Rigger)
The Countess Reviews “Swingtown”
Pure White Pleasure Tower
Review - Into The Attic
Sex News Roundup
Sgt. Major And Claire Adams In A Hot Erotic Choking Scene
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
180 Degrees
Another swinging experience … continued
Autobiography of a Masturbator: Porn O’Graphicus, Part I
A Call From An Old Friend
Chivalry and Me
Co-operation makes it happen
It’s not easy being Sexhobbyist
Package Deal
Pain Isn’t *Always* A Good Thing
Pansexuality: Love is Everything
Sex Advice
Feelin’ Hot Hot Hot: Sex And The Summer
He Keeps Losing his Erection…
NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
A Bruised HNT
Brunette sucks off 3 Guys in office back room
Candice Swanepoel Looking Hot in Lingerie
Footsie
Free Sexy Videos
Free Videos: Spread legs humiliating caning for delighful babe in shame and pain.
HNT- Nightie Night
Hot Twins spanking in FREE sex chat video
Impertinent Question: What’s Up with the Male G-Spot?
Last Night…..
Marlena - Dream Girl
Mz Berlin Is Fierce In This Demask Corset And Fishnet Stockings
[photography by altered aperture]
June 30th, 2008 — Bitching, Blogs, Collars, FetLife, January Seraph, Lochai, Masturbation, Shopping, Stuff and Things, Toys
It’s Monday. It kind of started off shitty. I woke up to my shoulder hurting and feeling a little grumpy about the mess our house has become. I have stressed and stressed about what I’m going to do with my career - do I apply for other teaching positions? do I just look for a secretary (administrative assistant) position? do I pursue translation and interpretation in the legal and medical fields? do I go into human resources? I *think* I am good a lot of things, so that makes the options almost too prodigious. On top of it all, I am out of my medicinal marijuana, prescribed originally for the emotional and physical trauma that resulted from my helicopter crash. This isn’t making for a good morning.
I got online and there was a sweet email from John (FetLife John). And it made me laugh out loud, for real. Yay. Things are looking up. I got to play on email back and forth with my other FetLife crush about the joys of being in demand (and demanding). Today might not suck afterall. And he may even finish my interview before I completely make an ass out of myself worshiping his cock.
Then a knock on the door. Oh noes! Monsters! Actually, it was my friendly UPS man (possibly the only not hot UPS delivery driver in Charlotte) with a nice plain brown box. Maybe it’s more DVDs and books that Garvey is sending me to review? Maybe it’s the new corset that a seamstress is sending me to model in for her publicity photos? The last feasible possibility was my new order from VibeReview.com, but they just sent it on Friday, I swear! Is the suspense killing you?
It was a nice package from VibeReview.com. I wrote all about it on Catalina Loves, but to summarize, there is the Iris, the Stubby G, the Corsette Harness (in black), the Magnificent Vibrating Glove, the Cyberglass Felicity, and Liquid Sex Personal Lubricant.
I checked everything out and I put it in nice little spot here on my desk where I can still see each item. I just can’t decide what to try first! What a perfect package of goodies! I’m a lucky, lucky, lucky girl.
Apparently Vibe Review turned my day around because then a bunch of good things happened. I got in touch with GH, who has an entire scene with MDS fucking me on his voice mail since we called him. It was good to hear that he’s been enjoying it and is looking forward to the next call. Hot! I love the idea of him listening as the filth pours out of my slutty mouth… oh myyyyy.
I also texted my friend and famous fetish model, January Seraph, and asked her if she would be into it if we call one night while we are fucking. Her response, “Absofuckinglutely!” So if we can manage to work out our schedules with a three hour time difference, we’ll have beautiful January Seraph listening as MDS violates me. With any luck it will turn her on and she’ll end up having her own lovely orgasm on the other end of the phone. Holy Shit I think I just orgasmed thinking about that. I also offered to help her out if she ever wants to make use of the phone during one of her scenes she’s shooting for her clips store - I’m always happy to shout out a few commands and humiliate a good subbie over the phone. :)
So I had to go out and about and get some medicine, as previously mentioned, so I kept my collar on and went out with it publicly. It felt very liberating, actually. It’s not my new collar, but it is pretty discreet. My friend, who joined me in my car in uptown to give me my medicine is a Dom, actually. He and I have gone round and round about how I am not his submissive and he does not have the rights he asserted to have had. This sent a clear signal and he said, “Did He make you wear that?” and I said, “No, He did not Make me wear it. I Chose to wear it out.” He told me he was incredibly jealous of my Husband and would not try to cross that boundary again. Victory is mine!
Then I talked to my friend, the one who asks me every day what I’m wearing. I haven’t heard from him in a while, so I called him and I said, “What are you wearing?” and he answered, “Nothing. What about you?” and I answered, “I’m actually fully dressed, collar and all.” We caught up and then he told me he was standing at the new house he just bought. Ha, “Standing naked at your new house with the contractor there?” Ok, so I got him on a technicality, but it was still fun. I told him that I really liked the idea of him standing there in nothing but a tool belt. He told me his birthday is Saturday. I told him that I am a firm believer in birthday blowjobs. Then I had to go… suddenly… but I’m not playing hard to get.
The rest of my drive home I spoke with someone I know who owns a chain of McDonald’s stores. I don’t even want to discuss McDonald’s at all, except to say that they need a manager for one of their stores who speaks Spanish, has management experience, can teach, can communicate, and basically is me. They pay better and have better benefits than my previous teaching job, and I don’t have to grade papers at night. I’m thinking it might be a very good solution to my career dilemma. I do make money writing, and we do own a PR business that brings in income, but neither of those provide health and dental benefits and we do have children. Besides, they don’t pay enough yet to live comfortably in Charlotte with four humans and three cats. I may have a job!
And Lochai ::dream sequence of Lochai using me like a slut:: texts saying he’ll be in touch tomorrow. Just to be clear, I’m not stalker-crazy weird over Lochai. I just have loved him for so long as an artist, and now to know him as a human and a Dom makes me weak in the knees and my mind races with fantasy.
Mr. F. is moving on the first and I’m pretty psyched because after he gets moved in I will be able to meet up with him in his new place and give him a nice housewarming cocksucking. Yum. Maybe we’ll even shoot a video of it. Another friend of mine, Mr. J works for the Panthers. I talked to him today, too. He and I have common interests. One of them includes my his black cock against the white skin of my face. Um, I am a slut.
D is driving me absolutely insane with desire - every time I get an email or an image from him I want him more. It doesn’t hurt that Thursday is just every bit as delicious and the two of them drive me more insane than I think either of them realize.
And finally… Kinkerbelle… Kinkerbelle I want to hurt. I want her to hurt me. I want to fuck her and I want her to fuck me. I want us each to wear a strap-on while we fuck in ways that only pornochicks fuck for big bucks. I want MDS to watch. I want MDS to join. I want to be fucked by her cock and then his. I want his cum dripping out of her as I lap it up like honey. I want Kinkerbelle. Bad.
June 30th, 2008 — Bitching, Blogs, Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com), Recommendations, Updates, Websites
Cross-Posted From Mr. and Mrs. Kink’s former home on Wordpress.com
WordPress.com pisses me off daily. I am so pissed right now that I’m considering taking another valium. Or just shutting down the whole thing and saying fuck it.
Why?
Censorship.
WordPress.com has started censoring links just like Myspace did before they went all Nazi. So any of my sites that are currently hosted on WordPress (this one, This Week In Kink, and The Good Things List) are fucked up. Some links work, some links don’t. It’s at their whim.
This is a major inconvenience as I move them to our new hosting site (Exjinn Networks rocks!) because I lose image files, blogrolls, and other things that I’ve put months worth of time and energy into only to re-do it again, ’cause I have all kinds of free fucking time. Don’t waste your time with wordpress.com, go to Exjinn Networks to start with!!!!
So please direct your Mr. and Mrs. Kink bookmarks to its new home:
We’ll unpack shortly. It’s not a total disaster, but please excuse the nailgun in the middle of the floor.
We’ll also be moving This Week In Kink and The Good Things List shortly, so keep an eye out for more on this topic.
As for WordPress.com ?! Fuck you, you Nazi motherfuckers!
June 29th, 2008 — Blogs, FetLife, Recommendations
One of my favorite groups on FetLife is the Lifestyle Bloggers Anonymous group. It’s a great place for people like me to lurk about. Recently I started a conversation asking what people thought about exchanging blogroll links and creating a FetLife blogroll on our blogs. These are some of the blogs that I’ll be adding (as soon as I can find time!) I did check them all out and I do like each and every one of them. I don’t want you to think I’m just adding links frivolously. These are great blogs with really clever minds behind them. Here is the result of the thread:
My Primary Blog is Feminist Fucktoy: the musings of a sex-positive fat femme queer poly 24/7 submissive cuntpet” where I explore BDSM, my role, my relationships, and how it all relates to all other aspects of my self and interests including sex, gender, size, and etc.
My Blog is A Little Cinful My blog is not a sex blog, but it does concern itself with the world of kink and how it plays out in relationships and real life. The occasionally intelligent ramblings of an experienced submissive hedonistic philosopher.
My blog is Alpine Sub Dreams and is about my adventures in my kinky life as well as some adventures working part-time as a professional submissive. I really have to blog more but once school is done, I’ll have more time.
Here is a description of my own blog site and link:The Enigmatic Angel: “the dreams, poetry, erotica, tales of real-life adventures, and miscellaneous meanderings of a switch in switchspace” Kisses from me, Angel :)
i would love to be on your bloglist as well. Here are the details: No Limits: His slave’s Total Submission. This is a true life journal of finding the love of my life, and subsequent descent into total submission as His 24/7 no limits slave. [...] i appreciate your consideration. slave2SJ
My blog, Down the Rabbit Hole, is a combinaton of my thoughts, experiences, philosophy, and erotica related to my journey into submission.
I’d love to be included on your blog Catalina. Here’s mine: Diary of a Kinky Librarian. It’s about my adventures with my Dom.
Hi, I would love to be added to your blogroll, A Change is Coming. My blog is about my thoughts, feelings, and experiences both in and outside of BDSM.
heh, you know i want to jump in on this (says my friend, Lolidoll).
here’s mine, if you’re still adding more! taste of burnt sugar …snippets. sometimes funny. sometimes not so much. :)
and lastly… BDSM is Love :)
Please do leave me a comment on FetLife if you are in the FetLife Lifetyle Bloggers Anon. group and didn’t get your link incluided. I can easily update this list.
June 28th, 2008 — Affiliate Programs, Blogs, January Seraph, Lochai, Recommendations, Shopping, The Good Things List, Websites
Even January Seraph puts on her Martha Stewart look for this week’s Good Things List.
Yes, The Good Things List has an official temporary home on its Wordpress site, but I wanted to copy it here as well. Take a look at the original.
A Good Blog To Read
Emerging On The Other Side is the blog written by an overeducated skank (former slut) who is proud of it.
A Good Toy
The Black Label Liberator Wedge/Ramp Combo is the best! It seems like a just a pretty little strategically cut out piece of foam with a cover, but it’s sooooo much more! It’s great for people (like me) who have back problems and can’t tolerate a traditional hands and knees position for longer than three minutes. I never ever feel pain (except for the good kind!) when we get out our Liberator set.
A Good Great Photographer
Lochai is not only a good photographer, but he is a great artist! He is the photographer responsible for the image at the top of this post! I recently did an interview with Lochai on Catalina Loves. This bit is From his bio on his website Kirinawa.com:
Lochai is an award winning photographer who’s work appears on gallery walls as well in fine art publications & coffee table books. He “shoots for the walls & not the computer screen”. Presently he has his work on display at the Leather Archive & Museum in Chicago, for sale in brick & mortar galleries from Key West Florida to Cyber fine art galleries based out of London as well on many private collectors walls. His images, rope art & interviews have been published in The British Journal of Photography, Secret, Skin Two, Bizarre, Prometheus, Cherry, A Magazine, Fetish Anthology, Extreme Anthology, New Times and in his own fine art books. His work can also be found on numerous websites from around the world. He is one of the founding directors of PAG, the Photo Artisans Guild, in West Palm Beach Florida. He as also the co-founder & co-curator of the Traveling Erotic Art Show which spent 2 years touring the US.
He feels that the best stories to tell come from the heart and everyone has something hidden that is bursting to come out. “I feel I can touch something inside the heart & head of each person who views my work. For me, I see the real person when I create my images. The real person comes out thru their alter ego.” Starting in Mid June he will be teaching along side David Lawrence & Bobby Knight 3 day intensive workshops on the art of fine art fetish photography. For more information go to http://prophototours.com/
Being an educator & student of bdsm and fetish, Lochai knows how to bring out the look of hidden desires in his models & shows “real” emotions to his audience. He is considered an advanced rope artist who tours the country teaching rope bondage to kinksters from all walks of life & both rigs his own models for his photography as well as for some of the top photographers in the world. “The Art of The Art” is how he looks at his bondage images & he loves to share his knowledge.
On the Bondage side… Lochai has been a student of Japanese inspired rope bondage since a very early age. He has been educating the rope bondage minded in South Florida for the past 8 years as well as across the country for the past 12. He is one of the founding members of the Traveling Rope Troupe comprised of riggers and bottoms who perform theater style aspects of their bondage art as a lead into a series of hands on classes. He can be found on occasion binding beauties and creating living art at local fetish events as well as major exhibitions. “I use the body as a canvas & rope as the medium in creating my art”
A Good Band
I’m partial to this band because it’s my very good friend’s band. Your Dirty Habit is club/dance music and it never leaves my playlist. On their site at Myspace.com/YourDirtyHabit, you can grab the Live Summer 2007 Live Mix - DO IT! I love it!
A Good Pay Site
Backdoor Bondage is the site that belongs to Sgt. Major. His scenes are some of the hottest I’ve seen, ever. Maybe it’s because I’m such a fan of Claire Adams and I’ve seen two scenes with her it them - one where she was being punched in the ass and another where she’s completely suspended upside down being erotically choked. Either way, yum yum.
A Good Webmaster Resource
Kinky Dollars is Kink.com’s affiliate program. We have had great success monetizing our blogs with Kink.com. Click on the little link and you can sign up for your own account.
A Good Non-Sex Science Tattoo Blog
My friend, Zetar, passed this blog along to me and I just have to share it with everyone else. I normally don’t like tattoos, but these tattoos are right up my alley. Nerds meet Ink - Ink meet Nerds. It’s Carl Zimmer’s Science Tattoo Emporium. Frequently when graduate students finish their doctorate (or even Masters) they get a commemorative tattoo. No, not an “I love Betty” tattoo, but cooler. Take a lookee.
A Good Corsetry Site
By now everybody knows that I love corsets. love Love LOVE them! My dream is to have a corset custom made by Isabella Corsetry. Here is some information from her about page:
Isabella Corsetry makes corsets for women, men, and even children (no waist reduction of course), as well as custom bridal gowns, vintage inspired dresses, costumes, and undergarments.
Each corset made by Isabella Costumiere is individually patterned to each customers own measurements . Since no two bodies are exactly the same this means you will get a corset that fits YOUR body. I use a rather long list of measurements and double check each pattern to insure the perfect fit. For long distance customers I can construct a muslin mock up of your corset and mail it to you to try on in the comfort of your own home to make certain your corset is just right. These are inlcuded with every overbust corset.
Well, there you have it - a few new Good Things for you to check out. I’m getting such a backlist that I’m considering doing The Good Things List twice a week instead of just on Saturdays. What do you think?
