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July 24th, 2008 — Blogs, Collars, My Naughty Secretary, Stuff and Things
[Written by (our) Naughty Secretary]
Rarely in life someone crosses my path and grabs my attention with full force. I’ve lived enough to know when this does occur, such an alliance is not to be ignored.
When first stumbling across the sex blogosphere, her words and images stood alone. Not only is she gorgeous, she is a mother, a wife, and a true force to be reckoned with; she clearly understands what it is to be a Goddess, worthy of worship by rite alone. But there is so much more to this woman I am now privileged enough to call my friend.
She contacted me recently to embark on several creative tasks and asked me for my assistance. In no way did I hesitate. After all, not only did I respect her as a peer, her personality intrigued me. It still does.
What makes her my Doppelgänger? She is strong and soft, hard and vulnerable. Full of compassion and love, she’s also like a Pitbull - loyally willing to defend a loved one at the drop of a hat, to put her own needs aside to hold up what’s right in this world. She loves whole-heartedly, without abandon, even if reality may tell her to heed for self preservation. She’s strong willed, completely lovable, and a dirty little whore just like me. Simply put, she’s a minxy antipodean.
She’s also stunning to look at, beauty to behold, inside and out. Now that doesn’t hurt, does it?
Did I mention she likes her collar?
So for the first time in my life, I have taken assignment as Secretary. To both she and her dirty, filthy, incredibly sweet and oh-so-wickedly-fuckable husband.
Stay tuned, this should be fun. In fact, I guarantee it.
July 4th, 2008 — Blogs, Bondage, Collars, Domination, Fetish, Lochai, Masturbation, Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com), Mz. Berlin, Recommendations, The Week In Kink, Toys
[This beautiful image is of Narration by D. I can't even begin to express how much I want him.]
And please take a few minutes to check out the great posts at True Grime.
So there you have it. The Week In Kink with a few new friends on the
June 30th, 2008 — Bitching, Blogs, Collars, FetLife, January Seraph, Lochai, Masturbation, Shopping, Stuff and Things, Toys
It’s Monday. It kind of started off shitty. I woke up to my shoulder hurting and feeling a little grumpy about the mess our house has become. I have stressed and stressed about what I’m going to do with my career - do I apply for other teaching positions? do I just look for a secretary (administrative assistant) position? do I pursue translation and interpretation in the legal and medical fields? do I go into human resources? I *think* I am good a lot of things, so that makes the options almost too prodigious. On top of it all, I am out of my medicinal marijuana, prescribed originally for the emotional and physical trauma that resulted from my helicopter crash. This isn’t making for a good morning.
I got online and there was a sweet email from John (FetLife John). And it made me laugh out loud, for real. Yay. Things are looking up. I got to play on email back and forth with my other FetLife crush about the joys of being in demand (and demanding). Today might not suck afterall. And he may even finish my interview before I completely make an ass out of myself worshiping his cock.
Then a knock on the door. Oh noes! Monsters! Actually, it was my friendly UPS man (possibly the only not hot UPS delivery driver in Charlotte) with a nice plain brown box. Maybe it’s more DVDs and books that Garvey is sending me to review? Maybe it’s the new corset that a seamstress is sending me to model in for her publicity photos? The last feasible possibility was my new order from VibeReview.com, but they just sent it on Friday, I swear! Is the suspense killing you?
It was a nice package from VibeReview.com. I wrote all about it on Catalina Loves, but to summarize, there is the Iris, the Stubby G, the Corsette Harness (in black), the Magnificent Vibrating Glove, the Cyberglass Felicity, and Liquid Sex Personal Lubricant.
I checked everything out and I put it in nice little spot here on my desk where I can still see each item. I just can’t decide what to try first! What a perfect package of goodies! I’m a lucky, lucky, lucky girl.
Apparently Vibe Review turned my day around because then a bunch of good things happened. I got in touch with GH, who has an entire scene with MDS fucking me on his voice mail since we called him. It was good to hear that he’s been enjoying it and is looking forward to the next call. Hot! I love the idea of him listening as the filth pours out of my slutty mouth… oh myyyyy.
I also texted my friend and famous fetish model, January Seraph, and asked her if she would be into it if we call one night while we are fucking. Her response, “Absofuckinglutely!” So if we can manage to work out our schedules with a three hour time difference, we’ll have beautiful January Seraph listening as MDS violates me. With any luck it will turn her on and she’ll end up having her own lovely orgasm on the other end of the phone. Holy Shit I think I just orgasmed thinking about that. I also offered to help her out if she ever wants to make use of the phone during one of her scenes she’s shooting for her clips store - I’m always happy to shout out a few commands and humiliate a good subbie over the phone. :)
So I had to go out and about and get some medicine, as previously mentioned, so I kept my collar on and went out with it publicly. It felt very liberating, actually. It’s not my new collar, but it is pretty discreet. My friend, who joined me in my car in uptown to give me my medicine is a Dom, actually. He and I have gone round and round about how I am not his submissive and he does not have the rights he asserted to have had. This sent a clear signal and he said, “Did He make you wear that?” and I said, “No, He did not Make me wear it. I Chose to wear it out.” He told me he was incredibly jealous of my Husband and would not try to cross that boundary again. Victory is mine!
Then I talked to my friend, the one who asks me every day what I’m wearing. I haven’t heard from him in a while, so I called him and I said, “What are you wearing?” and he answered, “Nothing. What about you?” and I answered, “I’m actually fully dressed, collar and all.” We caught up and then he told me he was standing at the new house he just bought. Ha, “Standing naked at your new house with the contractor there?” Ok, so I got him on a technicality, but it was still fun. I told him that I really liked the idea of him standing there in nothing but a tool belt. He told me his birthday is Saturday. I told him that I am a firm believer in birthday blowjobs. Then I had to go… suddenly… but I’m not playing hard to get.
The rest of my drive home I spoke with someone I know who owns a chain of McDonald’s stores. I don’t even want to discuss McDonald’s at all, except to say that they need a manager for one of their stores who speaks Spanish, has management experience, can teach, can communicate, and basically is me. They pay better and have better benefits than my previous teaching job, and I don’t have to grade papers at night. I’m thinking it might be a very good solution to my career dilemma. I do make money writing, and we do own a PR business that brings in income, but neither of those provide health and dental benefits and we do have children. Besides, they don’t pay enough yet to live comfortably in Charlotte with four humans and three cats. I may have a job!
And Lochai ::dream sequence of Lochai using me like a slut:: texts saying he’ll be in touch tomorrow. Just to be clear, I’m not stalker-crazy weird over Lochai. I just have loved him for so long as an artist, and now to know him as a human and a Dom makes me weak in the knees and my mind races with fantasy.
Mr. F. is moving on the first and I’m pretty psyched because after he gets moved in I will be able to meet up with him in his new place and give him a nice housewarming cocksucking. Yum. Maybe we’ll even shoot a video of it. Another friend of mine, Mr. J works for the Panthers. I talked to him today, too. He and I have common interests. One of them includes my his black cock against the white skin of my face. Um, I am a slut.
D is driving me absolutely insane with desire - every time I get an email or an image from him I want him more. It doesn’t hurt that Thursday is just every bit as delicious and the two of them drive me more insane than I think either of them realize.
And finally… Kinkerbelle… Kinkerbelle I want to hurt. I want her to hurt me. I want to fuck her and I want her to fuck me. I want us each to wear a strap-on while we fuck in ways that only pornochicks fuck for big bucks. I want MDS to watch. I want MDS to join. I want to be fucked by her cock and then his. I want his cum dripping out of her as I lap it up like honey. I want Kinkerbelle. Bad.
June 20th, 2008 — Altered Aperture, Blogs, Bondage, Collars, Fetish, Lochai, Masturbation, Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com), Mz. Berlin, Photos, Recommendations, Satine Phoenix, The Week In Kink, Toys
[Photo by Altered Aperture. The Official Return of The Red Hair ::wild applause:: ]
Well, it’s official. Every Friday I’m going to do This Week In Kink for you. I’m not only going to include our blogs, but the blogs of my friends, as well. I’m also going to just pick the top TWO posts instead of THREE because the list is getting a little long. As usual, please let me know what you think.
So there you have it. This Week In Kink with a few new friends on the list. We’ll see how big this list grows!
November 24th, 2007 — Bondage, Collars, Extreme Restraints, Recommendations, Shopping, Toys
Normally I push Stockroom, because they have great customer service and I like them. But I also shop at Extreme Restraints, and sometimes I prefer them because they have a larger selection. I especially like them when they are having their annual 15% off Christmas Sale — for those who prefer naughty over nice.
That’s one thing you can always count on at Catalinasays.com (and Catalinaloves.com) - I make my recommendations based on who I like and who I support personally — I’m not anybody’s bitch. That’s why sometimes I’ll send you to Stockroom, and sometimes to Extreme Restraints, at times to the Collar Factory. Why? Because Catalina says so.
November 24th, 2007 — Bondage, Collars, Shopping
Here is my newest collar and matching cuffs from the Collarfactory.com. I’m so excited to have them!!!!! You’ll notice I tend to go for the simple style - black lambskin lining with black leather strap and stitch. That’s just my preference — I could have chosen any number of colors and gone for much more elaborate hardware, but simple elegance is more up my alley.
Everybody knows that Catalina loves her Collar. That’s no mystery. Here’s something that not everybody knows. My favorite collar was purchased at a store in Portland, Oregon called Spartacus. It was the first collar ever purchased for me by my Master at that time and the event of buying it is a memory that I hold very close. It also was the first time I learned about adult babies, by the way… side story: there was a big order catalog of adult sized baby items - I had no idea that such a fetish even existed at the time. I was still quite young, 20-something. Anyway, I digress - the point is - my new collar and cuffs were custom made by the Collar Factory, which happens to be affiliated with Spartacus. Now, when I ordered my new collar, I had NO IDEA. So how’s that for a little cosmic ping, eh? Pretty cool!
So here’s the thing: You would love Collar Factory because
1) They are very reasonably priced. You can have a custom collar made for the same price you would pay in your local dime-a-dozen adult novelty store.
2) Did you see the part about it being custom made? That’s right - you specify the width, the length, the material and color of the outside and inside, the stitching, the decoration (gems, spikes, studs, lettering)… and you can have matching cuffs made, too!
3) You’re dealing with a small company that is really good at customer service. They can do just about anything to a collar you could ask them to do.
4) I like them! I know, that should really be number one.
So visit the Collar Factory. Tell them that Catalina sent you when you order a collar and/or cuffs in the comments and they’ll treat you extra nice!
