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July 6th, 2008 — Advice, Altered Aperture, Blogs, Erocrush, Fetish, Lochai, Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com), My Filthy Mind, Quid Pro Quo, Stuff and Things, Text Messages, The Dude, Weight Loss

This post is crazy long today - fair warning!
Life is boring and it’s exciting at the same time. I kind of do the same thing day after day yet it’s pretty exciting! I started trying to write sexual fantasies in Spanish, but the reality is that my Spanish isn’t really such that I know all the best sexy slang. I guess I have a new challenge.
I talked to my friend last night, the hot little 23-year-old teacher that I used to work with, on text. We hung out for the first time in a long time the other night and got all fucked up. He knew about part of my secret life while we were teaching together, but not all of it. Now that we are no longer co-workers, I let him in on a few more secrets. It all happened because he asked me what i was doing for a living now that I’m not teaching and I mentioned being a PR and Marketing consultant, which led to a discussion of my client list, which led to the inevitable question on my part, “once you see the links to my blogs there is no going back.” But he is a consenting adult and so he now knows. How much he knows and what he’s read, I have no idea, but I do really value having true friends who know the true you and not just the social mask you present to most of your friends.
So anyway, it changes things a bit that we don’t work together anymore and that I’m a professional sex writer, worker, and promoter. It doesn’t change things like all of a sudden I gave him the best head of his life, though that has crossed my mind. He and I already had a perverted friendship to begin with, so it just really is a new level of perversion that we share in common. Kind of nice, really. I have a flirting fetish.
So last night I texted him to find out if he was going to go work out today (Sunday) because I wanted to go running, but instead he says he’s going to Mass and then to brunch. Okay, I forgot that even though he’s a perverted little man that he is a good little Catholic boy. So I said something about six different responses I started to his text but they were all too filthy. So he asked me to send them anyway. Again… “Are you sure? Are you sober?” LOL. Seriously. I don’t appreciate it when people can only be sexual when drunk. So again I realize he’s just being a little naughty. So okay. I play along. Now I have to try to remember them all.
- Number 1: To sneak off somewhere during mass, one at a time, discreetly, to a place where nobody where nobody would think to look (why would we even be there, nobody would be looking). A simple lift of the dress and quick fuck and back into mass just as casually and just as discreetly, but with a very naughty secret.
- Number 2: To park far enough away from the church that you could have a quick blow job in the car and I would go into church tasting cum on my lips.
- Number 3: To take the nice little Catholic boy and turn him into a filthy slut who has no purpose other than to satisfy me.
- Number 4: To have hot sex that morning before leaving so that while you’re sitting there in church there is cum dripping out of me into my panties and the subtle scent of my pussy on your fingers.
(He texts, “That’s four by my count, keep going.”)
- Number 5: To be sitting around at brunch with all the nice churchgoing people while messing around with each other under the tablecloth while keeping a straight face.
- Number 6: To give you a reason to confess next week after thinking such filthy thoughts about a married woman.
- Bonus 7: Because I’m competitive and I love cum and know that I am good at what I do. I figure you’re 23 and so you’ve never had anything like me. Nobody you’ve ever slept with has ever sucked your cock the way I would and we both know that.
- Bonus 8: It would make all the rumors from school that we were fucking true, which is hot.
So we met up for brunch today. It was fun, kind of like old times eating together at school. I watch him devour thousands of calories while I freak out over how many I am eating. I give him half of my food and take a bite of his, no matter what it is. Wait. WTF?! I didn’t get a taste of his food today. Now he owes me! It is nice to be able to be perverted with friends and not have it be weird. I like that about my friends.
Let’s see, what else? I set up Nikki’s Altered Aperture gallery on Google Photo. It’s nice to be able to upload galleries, set them as unlisted, and then send someone the auth key to get into the album. I like Google for a lot of reasons, despite their invasion of privacy that they don’t even try to deny. I also used Google Photo to make an album to send to my cookie friend to see if I can get a couple of new banners made for me. He’s a pro and it’s so obvious in his work. I love to fantasize about my friends. I should write a new fantasy for my cookie friend one of these days.
I had a nice talk with Melvin about coming to Charlotte. I really want him to do my first set of nudes and I really want him to shoot a scene with MDS and I. He’s the perfect person to do it in my mind. Then I talked to Nikki about shooting with Melvin - he should shoot her, she should shoot him, they should both shoot me (of course), and Nikki also talked about lining up some models she knows and doing a shootout, which I think must mean that they both shoot the same model at the same time from different angles. Since neither of them seem like gun people or John Wayne, I think that must be what it means. Anyway, Melvin would be coming to Charlotte as our guest and would stay with us in our home and hopefully will also join us in our cozy, comfy bed, if even just to hang out comfortably. Who knows what else… Melvin has a Sir and I have to watch myself from trying to make him Mine.
I came up with a genius idea for a new blog today and now I just have to implement it (buy the domain and set it up). I can’t let the cat out of the bag yet, but you’ll soon hear about it. I’m also working on the Quid Pro Quo website, which will soon be moved from WordPress to its own .com domain. I am going to make a static page for each of our clients and I think it would be nice to blog about it from time to time as well. I have amazing experiences and conversations with people that others dream of talking to. It’s good stuff. I’m leaving everything as a draft at this point until we move it to it’s dot com address. It’s soooooo much work to move an established blog. Just don’t make that mistake. Learn from my earlier mistakes. Patience over Populating Your Blog if you have any plans to move it at all.
That’s my Sunday. It’s 6:25 pm. Busy day. How was your day? The image is from Postsecret.com, which you should read every Sunday - it’s one of my favorite days of the week because of Postsecret!
July 5th, 2008 — Blogs, Bondage, Erocrush, FetLife, January Seraph, Lochai, Masturbation, Recommendations, Shopping, The Good Things List, Toys, Websites

This week’s Good Things List is brought to you by the letter V (for valium) and the number 10 (for the dose)… and readers like you! (PS: JOIN FETLIFE!)
A Good Blog To Read
Narration by D is this week’s blog pick. D is the counterpart of another of my favorite blogs Thursday’s Child. It says in his profile: “From the male perspective, the exploration of a young married couple beyond vanilla sex.” D is in my BILF list. His wife is also in my BILF list. They as a couple are in my BILF list. Now we just have to figure out how to get into the same state and city!
A Good Toy
I have just gotten my new shipment of toys to review for Vibe Review and I haven’t even formally reviewed it yet on my blog, but so far I can tell you that I adore the Cyberglass Felicity. I have just recently gotten into glass/pyrex dildos and this one is a perfect starter because of the low price. You can warm it under some hot water in the sink or you can cool it in the refrigerator for a while (it comes in a nice case, by the way!). You can use either end, you can play with it vaginally or anally. I just love it! Vibe Review happens to be a great company to do business with - a classy online toy company that has a good reputation. That matters!
A Good Photographer
Erocrush. Melvin Moten, Jr. is Erocrush. His work is special to me. He is special to me. I consider him a very good friend. He allows me to use his images all the time on my blogs. I know that you have enjoyed them. Like Lochai, who I’m in love with, Melvin isn’t shooting for the porn content market. He shoots fetish and erotic art that he enjoys. With real women, that he enjoys. With real couples. One thing I noticed about Melvin’s work is that his models obviously feel so natural with him that they forget he’s even there. It’s as though you’re actually there, in the scene, a voyeur. I love Melvin. I want Melvin to shoot me. With any luck at all, this fall, he will. Then I will have my way with him! If you click on the (perfect) image in this post (by Erocrush) it will magically take you to his site. Fear not! It will open in a new window and you won’t lose the Good Things List!
A Good Pay Site
Inescapable Bondage is January Seraph’s new content site. She has been shooting their own content like crazy. She and her hotter than hell partner-in-crime, Smutty, have been violating all kinds of men and women. This is Brand Spanking New! January isn’t, of course. She’s got a great reputation as a top model and actress already, but this site is so new that you’re probably the first one you know to see it!
A Good Blogger Resource
The Week In Kink. Duh. I sat here and tried to think about this one for a while and then I realized, if you’re a good blogger and you have good posts, then you should send me a little note. Each week I go through blogs that I like and pick the hottest posts and then publish them on TheWeekInKink.Com. I just want to be clear that I’m not trying to compete with Sugasm. It’s not a democracy - it’s just a list of my top favoritest, hottest, made me want to masturbate posts. :)
A Good Group
It’s widely known that I love FetLife. I’m an official greeter there now, which makes me feel extra special. What makes me feel super, duper special, though, is starting a new Charlotte Kinksters group (it’s called Charlotte, NC - The Queen of Kink, since we are the Queen City!) If you join FetLife you can join the Charlotte Kinky group. The idea is that we could all get together for informal gatherings and have a little community here that isn’t quite as formal as CAPEX.
A Good Alternative Education Resource/CommUNITY Source
This is the place to go to find professional alternative educators, presenters, event planners, vendors, dm/security/medical, legal, volunteers, and more. Everybody claims to be a sex educator, but this group is truly respected within the commUNITY as the leaders in their fields. Now, you can learn from them. Oh, it’s no coincidence you’ll find Lochai there. Wouldn’t you die to take a bondage class with Lochai? Oh my… You can also take classes with people like Claire Adams. OMG. I’m in heaven.
June 3rd, 2008 — Blogs, Erocrush, Sugasm

[Photo by Erocrush]
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #135? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.
This Week’s Picks
Tantra is work and a two way street
“Tantra is hard work and is not all light and orgasmic play.”
Nyotaimori
“She smiles wantonly, but says nothing.”
Submit
“But when you’re really attracted to someone, and part of that attraction is to their dominance, it almost gives you a second wind for pain.”
Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank
Editor’s Choice
Discussing a lifestyle event with strangers
More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm
See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.
BDSM & Fetish
53 Days
‘Braking’ His Bottom - F/m Spanking Pictures
Careful, You May End Up In My Novel
Cerebral Trainee Subject: Susan Part 2
Dinner at La Domaine - Reality
Dreaming of the Queen
The intricate natures of men and women.
More than a little bratty
Mrs.Kink’s Strap-On Fantasy
r’s naughty thoughts on squirting
Sadistic Moments
Spanking Sex
Venus 2000 / Milking Machine
Vignette of a Real Life Session
Sex Advice
Ask Miss Bliss-My Girlfriend’s Unhappy Without A Female
The Clitoris: A Users guide for submissive men
Faking? Who are you kidding him or yourself?
How To Pick A Dildo
Sex Dream Analysis: The Panty-less Cowgirl
Starting Your Own Sex(y) Blog
What Kind of Sex Do You Like?
Erotic Writing and Experiences
Anticipation
Carpet burns on her knees
The Chocolate Lovers Part 1
First gay, forever gay
Hero Undone
Insatiable.
Senses
What he remembers…
Sex Work
Sex Workers In The Myths
NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Asian MILF gives perfect lickie suckie dickie
Catalina Loves Freckle and Cuff HNT
The Corset That Started It All
Fetish Model Anna Rose In The Perfect Ballet Heel Fetish Picture
I can’t decide
Intimate Moments with Annette Schwarz
Nasty webcam babe bucking like a porn queen
Sexy Little Thing -HNT
Sunny Leone: Showing Off Her Nice Body and Boobs
Victoria Valmer is simply too good to be true
Video: Fresh Out of the Shower
Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Ava Rose is Carolina Jones
Bondage Threesome With Sara Faye, Amber Rayne, And Device Bondage
Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
How to masturbate, v4.0
I am a masturbator
Reading Sex
Sex as sport, part 1
She’s On Top
Skin — Part I
May 30th, 2008 — Blogs, Erocrush, The Week In Kink, Updates

[Photo by Melvin Moten, Jr. / Erocrush]
With all the new blogs we’re updating daily, I thought you might like a Week In Review.
The first post of the New Toy Tuesday reviews premiered on
Catalina Loves this week. I also finally finished my
interview with Satine Phoenix and took some
new freckle photos.
Catalina Says has a series I wrote this week on starting your own sex blog, monetizing your sex blog, and increasing traffic to your sex blog.
The Momme Domme blog has more in the series of My Naughty Thoughts. My favorites are r’s naughty thoughts on squirting, r’s naughty thoughts on orgasmic expressions (with a hot pic of January Seraph having an orgasm).
I finally found the photographer of The Corset that Started It All and posted his pictures on Corset and Collar. There’s a nice little story there about how Martin Pelzer impacted my metamorphosis without even knowing it. There is also a lot of eye candy there for people who like sexy women in corsets and/or collars.
My favorite posts this week on Breathplay.info are a gasmask/latex fetish picture by Altered Aperture, a bondage/religion fetish picture, and Anna Rose’s perfect ballet heel fetish picture.
I personally think that Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com) is hotter than ever, but I might be a little biased. I wrote about a badly needed night of D/s, a strap-on fantasy, and the possibility of doing Dom/Domme scene with Mr. Kink.
And finally, if you go to Marky D. Sade’s sexy bondage blog, you’ll find a really cool Claire Adams scene, a bondage threesome post, and of course, a Mz. Berlin FemDom scene (HOT!) and January Seraph FemDom scene.
So there are my favorites for the week. I hope you find something you really enjoy! Please leave a comment wherever you go, so that I know what you want to see more of.