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This Lolcat is For My Favorite Attorneyman, D - Have A Good Monday!

Seriously.  I’ve lost track.  I thought it was Monday on Friday and today I forgot it was Sunday until long after the Simpsons were over.  I am busier than ever, which is a very good thing if you’re someone trying to run a business.  Nobody wants to start a business and hear crickets.  In fact, we’ve got so much on our plates that we’re probably going to leave a few blogs dormant.  We considered selling the domains, but ultimately they are costing us nothing if they just sit there.  There’s no sense in getting rid of them.  In short, you won’t see much posted on MrandMrsKink.com or on CorsetandCollar.com, and you may have already noticed that I parked MommeDomme.com.  There just simply isn’t enough time in the day to take good care of them.  I do want to integrate part of MommeDomme into CatalinaLoves.com, but again- when is there time?  It’s a good idea to RSS feed to them so you get updates as they happen.

So this blog is really not a “useful” blog in the big picture.  It doesn’t have a motive.  I don’t really sell anything here.  I don’t really write sexy adventures or anything like that, but it is my personal journal in some ways.  I don’t write my really personal stuff here, but it’s a good place to sort of debrief at the end of the day.  It’s become a part of my bedtime routine that I enjoy - the opportunity to write freestyle without pressure to please an audience.  Read it if you want or don’t.  It’s not about readers, but just about writing.  How liberating!

So basically here was my day: Lochai, Trufetish.com, and Fetlife.com.  I slept in today - I went to bed around 4 am and I woke up at noon, the call that awoke me was Lochai.  Off the top of my head I can’t even really recall what it was about.  He is, of course, going crazy with wrapping up loose ends and moving to the other side of the country within one month and being ready to go to work.   I do have to say that I am pretty excited to work so closely with two men that I respect and admire.  They both have taught me a tremendous amount in a very short time.   I also enjoy them both on a personal level, so it makes working so friggin’ hard fun!

How does Trufetish fit in there?  I stayed up late and wrote my article to submit before the deadline.  How about that?  The deadline is the 26th and today is the (wait, let me check, I really don’t know) 25th!  Wow.  Big deal.  I thought today was like the 22nd and I was really early.  Not nearly as impressive, but it still counts. This month I wrote about roleplay.  You’ll have to wait until it is published on Trufetish.com to read it.  I’m curious to find out what people think about it.

So Lochai told me today to expect a package from Fed Ex this week.  I Love Surprises!  I hate them, and I love them at the same time.  They drive me crazy, but it’s a good kind of crazy, like when you were a kid and it was December 23rd!  It’s a good week for packages, actually.  I’m expecting a few!  It is so exciting!  I love just getting a card in the mail, a package makes me jump up and down with joy.  For real.  I love them.

In other news the-f-mag.com contacted us today.  They wrote that they stumbled upon Quid Pro Quo and were planning to write an article about our little empire.  Neato.  I’ll have to follow up on that tomorrow (today).

This week there is a lot on my plate - I have a lot of people to get in touch with, plenty to write, and I have raffle items that need to go to the post office.  I am giving all of my clothes that are too big to my neighbor so I’m cleaning out my closet, literally, not in the Eminem kind of way.  I think a lot of my friends are annoyed that I don’t have time to socially chat online very much anymore, but if I’m not incredibly disciplined about getting my work done, then it just adds up and freaks me out.   So to my friends, please just know that I’m not ignoring you, we’re just working our asses off right now, trying to make the Fetlife Marketing Department a huge success while we continue to work our asses off for our other clients at Quid Pro Quo.   This week that literally translates into working all day contacting various people for several projects, setting things up for various promos, having graphic design work outsourced, writing reviews,  and then working at night on a new blog for Sgt. Major and fine tuning Lochai’s blog.   I have the best job in the world.

Well, it’s 5:48 am, I just remembered that I need to set someone new up on the BestSexBloggers.com blog.  A lovely blog, Bloody Laughter, was personally recommended by our own Essin’ Em.   A superb blog.  I’m excited to see what she posts on BestSexBloggers.com.  Off I go, Chris Martin singing to me, to wave my magic wand and add a new contributor.

It’s official. Marky D. Sade and I have accepted a proposal to work with Fetlife.com as their marketing department. We are actively seeking new relationships with companies, large and small, who are interested in advertising their products or events on the best fetish social networking site. What makes Fetlife.com the best adult, fetish, kinky, social networking site on the internet? Well, take a minute to read what Jane’s Guide had to say about it:

Take a moment and imagine a leather Facebook or Myspace, and then imagine it being run by and for kinky folks. That is exactly what Fetlife is! It is the coolest new community site out there for pervs, and it is absolutely 100% free. I had been hearing the buzz about this new spot on the web from a few of my lifestyle friends, and I finally decided to go set up an account and take a look myself. Many years ago I had been on other sites that promised community and allowed free communication, but since those sites have sold to other companies their soul has left the building and communication costs money. It is also communication that is no longer under the nurturing ownership of perverts with a personal interest in our tribe. I’d lost interest, and so had most of my friends. I was hoping that this site could be some of what I was missing on the old ones. Wow, I wasn’t disappointed! I immediately ran into some of my old friends, and then ran off to recruit new ones. It is easy to sign up. Once you have, then you set up a profile. You can add pics to it, and you’ll never run into that “you have to have such and such membership” to view pics or show them to others. There are social groups here with ongoing forum conversations, so you can sign up for topics that interest you (or create your own groups). There is a mail system that acts like a personal bulletin board for private conversations, so you don’t lose track of what has been said to anyone. You can post writing, see what your friends are doing, and a lot more. A lot of talented pervs are posting writing and engaging in conversation here. I’ve met a lot of new friends. There is a small amount of advertising, but it is done really tastefully and never gets in the way. You can write to the folks that run the site, and they will actually write you back. I’ve been in love with this place and raving about it for the last several weeks. This is one of the few sites that didn’t ask for review. I sought out the owner and asked him if I could post one. It is that good. I feel like I’m giving you guys an early Christmas gift. Go check it out! This is the next big kinky community site! They are going to be huge, and they will stay huge as long as they keep the spirit that they have now. - Vamp

To highlight: “There is a small amount of advertising, but it is done really tastefully and never gets in the way.” and “This is the next big kinky community site! They are going to be huge, and they will continue to stay huge…”

We couldn’t be more proud! It’s all true, too. One thing we love about being a part of the Fetlife team is that we are able to work with you, one-on-one, through each step of the way to get your ad placed in just the right spot. You can advertise broadly across the entire network, or we can target by location (country or state) and by gender (M,F,MtF,FtM and or GQ), thereby optimizing your advertising money by targeting your market, the kinksters who are looking for your company or product!

We only display three ads per page, all static and nicely placed in the F-zone. You’re not competing for attention. People will and do see them, but as Vamp pointed out in her review, they aren’t obnoxious and annoying. We’ll keep it that way! We want to continue to build Fetlife the way it was intended - by (real) Kinksters for (real) Kinksters!

For more information on advertising on Fetlife.com, please contact us at mark@fetlife.com or catalina@fetlife.com. And feel free to grab that banner up above and link it from your site to Fetlife.com. :)

Lochai "working" at Hogtied.com

SAN FRANCISCO (August 22, 2008) – Award-winning fine art bondage photographer Lochai will take over from Matt Williams as director of Kink.com’s Hogtied.com, the company announced today.

“Hogtied was our first site and we still consider it our flagship,” said Kink.com founder and CEO Peter Acworth. “We’re very pleased to bring Lochai on to continue the Hogtied tradition. He’s one of the best-known bondage riggers around and for years he’s been out there in the community, both as a photographer and as an educator. Most importantly, he really gets what’s fun and beautiful and hot about women in bondage – he understands the Kink.com esthetic. I’m very much looking forward to working with him.”

Lochai’s inaugural update on Hogtied.com is a sizzling 56-minute scene with 22-year-old Virginian beauty Isobel Wren. Shot when Lochai was auditioning for his new role, the scene currently headlines the site, In it, Wren is placed in Lochai’s trademark Japanese-influenced rope bondage and subjected to a stunning number of screaming orgasms, including a copious squirt. Throughout, Lochai’s sardonic humor tempers the intense bondage and stimulation.

Said Lochai:

“Everything that’s done in any of the Kink.com sites is real, so it’s not like I’m acting a part. I’m actually being myself. I’m sarcastic, I’m a smart ass, I laugh during scenes and I also console when someone’s upset. I’m going to be doing my real play, my real life, within the walls of the Armory, because that’s what’s expected by the customers — and that’s what’s expected by Kink.com. I’m going to be super comfortable there, because I feel like I’m home.”

An award winning photographer whose work appears in galleries as well as in publications like The British Journal of Photography, Secret, Skin Two, Bizarre, and in his own fine art books, Lochai is equally well known as a bondage educator, teaching classes at conferences around the United States and doing public scenes in nightclubs and at fetish events. A founding director of the Photo Artisans Guild (PAG), in West Palm Beach Florida, he was also the co-founder and co-curator of the Traveling Erotic Art Show, which spent two years touring the United States. He also moderates a group on BDSM social networking site FetLife, CommUNITY Building, that seeks to build BDSM and alternative sexuality leadership skills.

Lochai takes over from longtime Hogtied.com director Matt Williams, who began directing the site in 2003. Williams was recently promoted to Kink.com’s Creative Director, and will be guiding creative development on new sites as well as Kink.com’s existing sites. “I’m looking forward to helping with the overall creative level,” said Williams. “I’m going to work with existing sites and new sites both, developing the look and feel, and sharing fantasies that I have in my head — I have great ideas for each one of our sites.”

Williams will continue to direct unscripted girl-girl erotic wrestling site UltimateSurrender.com, which he calls “my little baby.” “I’m going to hang on to that – I have some great ideas for the future.”

Lochai expressed his excitement about his new role.

“Every person who’s ever sat down in front of me in a classroom, or who has surrounded me out in a club to watch what I’m doing, has wanted this job. They want to get paid to tie up beautiful women and get them off – and that’s my job. It’s a wonderful feeling, and an affirmation that my kink pays off.”

A longtime Florida resident, Lochai will be relocating in September to the San Francisco area. He says he’ll continue his work teaching bondage and SM lifestyle classes, both at the half-dozen conferences he traditionally attends annually, and in the San Francisco area.

For more information about Lochai, visit his site Kirinawa.com or email the Kink.com Public Relations Manager at thomas@kink.com. Webmasters interested in promoting Kink.com content, including Hogtied.com, please visit www.KinkyDollars.com or email the Kink.com affiliate manager at terry@kink.com.

ABOUT HOGTIED.COM: Hogtied was the first site in the Kink.com network, directed by founder Peter Acworth from 1997 until Matt Williams took over in 2003. Updated every Tuesday, Hogtied.com offers members more than 15,000 streaming minutes and more than 84,000 photos in over 400 episodes that feature beautiful women subjected to sexual rope bondage, erotic punishment, and repeated orgasms.

ABOUT KINK.COM: San Francisco erotica studio Kink.com provides authentic fetish entertainment that seeks to demystify alternative sexualities and inspire sexual adventurers. Since the launch of its first site, Hogtied.com, in 1997, Kink.com has developed a network of premium adult sites that now operate from studios in the San Francisco Armory, a decommissioned National Guard facility with sets ranging from stark dungeons to luxurious pieds-à-terre. Kink.com also operates a free documentary site at BehindKink.com and the leading fetish affiliate network, KinkyDollars.com.

ProPhotoTours.com - Side-by-Side, Start-to-Finish Photographic Workshops

Last week I took the easy way out and sent you to BestSexBloggers.com. This week I did my homework! I included blogs that aren’t on BestSexBloggers.com. Of course I’ll start with a synopsis of our own blogs. We haven’t been writing as much of our own content - this week we became the marketing department for Fetlife.com. If you haven’t checked out Fetlife yet, what are you waiting for? It’s the best social networking site for kinky people just like you!

This week’s Week In Kink is brought to you by the caffeine and nicotine keeping me awake to write it.

Catalina Loves:

• Catalina loves Mr. Johnson (Part II)
• Catalina loves Masculinity

Catalina Says:

• It’s Been A While - Lots of (Good) Stuff Going On!
• A Return To Normal

Mr. and Mrs. Kink.com:

• Mrs. Kink Misses Mr. Kink

Breathplay.info:

• Kinky Zee, Latex, and Spandex
• Toxxxy Must Like Jam and Awful Lot!

Sgt. Major’s Briefing Room:

• Way Up Yonder
  
• Personal Best (Erotic Fiction by Sgt. Major Derek Viktur)

Mz Berlin’s Blog:

• Me (Mz Berlin) and Madison Young in Training of O
• Mz Berlin Knows That You’re Not Audrey Hollander - Anal Toys for The Rest of Us

Satine Phoenix’s Blog:

• Satine Phoenix is Shibari Bound and Forced to Cum on Hogtied.com
• Satine Phoenix says, “Save Thousands and Go To Your High School Reunion”

Lady Sascha, Cocktease Extraordinaire:

• Lady Sascha’s Review of the We-Vibe Sex Toy
• You Can’t Make This Shit Up

Waking Vixen:

• Citibank’s Anti-Adult Business Policy
• No More Naked City?!?!

Marky D. Sade’s Bondage Blog:

• Satine Phoenix, Mz Berlin, and Chanta Rose in Lesbian Bondage Threesome
• Mz Berlin Fucks Sabrina Fox in Rough Bondage Session

Postsecret.com every Sunday!

Life is very busy and I’m not sure how much I’ll get a chance to write.  This is truthfully one of my favorite blogs to write because it’s just the one where I get to sit down and say ” blah “.  What comes out comes out.

Today we officially became the marketing department for FetLife.com, which is exciting!  Marky is really the genius at it.  I talk to people.  I’m good at networking.  He’s good at actually making the deals in the dunes.   Between the two of us we’re a great team.  We think in such different ways that what seems obvious to me wasn’t to him and vice-versa.   You can advertise through FetLife.com by contacting me (catalina@fetlife.com) or Mark (mark@fetlife.com).

Also big announcement today from Lochai.  He was offered and has accepted the position at Kink.com as the new webmaster/director of Hogtied.com.  He recently went out there (to San Francisco) and did a shoot.  You can watch it here.  I am fortunate enough to have seen it already and I’m telling you - I adored Lochai before, but now I adore Lochai.  What a yummy scene.  That’s all I’m saying about it.  You have to see for yourself!

Another crazy announcement in my circle:  Audacia Ray is no longer writing The Naked City.  I know?!  What the hell are they thinking?  Sometimes I wonder.

In other news - I received copies of Rachel Kramer Bussel’s books Spanked!, Tasting Her, and Tasting Him.  The thing is, I think that Marky is supposed to review Tasting Her and I was to review Tasting Him, but I like both books!  Being bisexual means I get to review both :)  I need to get to work on reviews though, because I have a few books and movies that I need to give my opinion on - I know my opinion influences the greater society as a whole, and without it you will be paralyzed - do I buy the book or not?!  What about this dildo?!  What does Catalina Say?!

I can’t remember if I already mentioned this, but I’m writing now for Trufetish.com and I think this month I’m going to write about polyamory, feeding off of the two articles that are already there.  I’ve been on both sides of the pond, as a couple with a girlfriend or a boyfriend and also as the girlfriend of a couple.  It’s also a topic that I’ve been discussing a lot lately with close friends.

I am also writing now on The Femmes Guide.  It’s an interesting thing, the Femme’s guide, “a sex-positive femme queer collaborative blog”.  It was brought up the other day by the editor of the blog that we aren’t a very diverse group - that aside from one of us (me) we are all “white, fat, femmes with advanced educations.” This brings up the issue of me being an ex-fat femme.  I’ve been looking for a place to write about this phenemona - the loss of an entire human being (130 lbs. so far) and how the rules have changed.  The game is different.  I am not quite sure how to navigate through society in this new role.  I don’t want to write too much about it here yet, or else why would you bother to go there to read it, but I think it will turn into a nice article.

Well, that about covers everything I can come up with at 4 am.  I’ll be back in a few hours, at it again…

Graphic Design by Naughty Secretary

Bestsexbloggers.com is officially open for business, I have hung my shingle outside the door and rung the bell.  The result is already exciting - sex bloggers and writers from all genres, styles, and every label imaginable combined with the images of the best erotic photographers have made for a very neato place to visit.  I’m already hooked, and it’s my blog!  Kind of.  I mean, I started it and made it, but the result is not the result of my efforts, but the community.

I got the idea for a community blog from Lochai, who introduced me to the notion of commUNITY.  We’re not just writing for our readers now, we’re writing for each other - networked tightly - forming the perfect (almost perfect) group of work by intertwining each individual’s.  I think it’s nearly orgasmic.

Speaking of orgasmic.  A few things worth noting - in case you missed Lochai’s comment on a previous post, it said:

Catalina,

You are by far the most beautiful, wonderful woman in the world (after my wife that is)! This show would be a fraction of what it is if not for you and your er….. talents.

Luv Ya!
L-

Also worth noting is that I called D earlier and masturbated and came for him on his voicemail so he can listen to it over and over again.  Soon thereafter I got a call from Thursday, who was clearly on her way to her own orgasm, so while I listened to them fucking, MDS stripped my clothes off of me and threw me on the bed and had his way with me.  I came three times, between his cock and his tongue, on the phone, as I listened to D and Thursday getting off together.  Um, yum.

When it rains, it pours, right?  Here it’s stormy!  Kinkerbelle is coming for a visit in a few weeks and we have some good plans!  They include me (the star!), Kinkerbelle, MDS, Mr. F, and Altered Aperture - and if we can talk her into it, we’re going to throw Miss Ellie Lumpesse into the middle of it all!  (Cross your fingers)

And it’s a good thing I’m on the East Coast or I’d probably already be in the middle of JC and his girl.

That about cover’s the day’s kinky activities.  I’m going to go work on the interview I did with Claire Adams.  Oh, that got your attention, did it?  Yep, keep an eye out and you can read for yourself what she had to say.

Congratulations, Lochai, on a very successful opening night reception at the WEAM!  Of course, you were a hit.  You’re LOCHAI!!  I’m not the *only* one who adores you!

I am one of those rare lucky people who have to work 7 days a week.  Not because I work for the man, but because I work for myself.  Since I work pretty much every day, and pretty much all day every day, it’s a good thing that my definition of work includes chatting with Sabrina Fox, Priapus, and Lochai and writing interviews for Claire Adams, Sgt. Major, and Bobby Knight (ProPhotoTours.com).

Today is Lochai’s opening night at the WEAM.  It’s pretty exciting, and I wish I could be there to see it for myself.  I still can’t believe I am a genuine part of making that happen.  The best I can hope for is that he will call me when he gets home, even if it’s late, and tell me all about it.  I lucked out and got to talk with both Lochai and his amazing bride, Janice.  She’s so amazing, I can’t help but adore her every bit as much as I do him.

I spent the majority of my day working on the Week in Kink and The Good Things List.  Both were late, but I noticed that the world did not fall apart.  I’ll take note of that the next time I have terrible anxiety about not getting them done on time.  I openly kissed Graydancer’s ass in The Good Things List, because it was a deal we made on Twitter to get him on board with the bestsexbloggers.com project.  This wasn’t exactly our deal, just that I was willing to kiss his ass to make it happen, and this is the only way I know how from a distance.

I didn’t work all that much this weekend, actually - it was one of the first weekends I truly set out to socialize.  Not all of my plans worked out.  Friday I had a new workout - sprints with abs and triceps.  The Dude has decided that it’s time for me to step it up and … I can’t really disagree.  I’ve been running, but now it’s time for toning.  I came home from an intense workout and managed to go out for wine and sushi with M on Friday night and somehow three glasses of wine fucked me up.  Must have been because I was so tired.  I don’t know.    We normally eat out every Friday night, but he’s training for the NY Marathon and I’m still trying to lose weight, so sushi and liquid calories seemed more appropriate.  He had a bad week and so W baked a cake or him — I know, seems counter intuitive to give a marathon runner in training a cake, but he had to run 14 miles this weekend and the carb/sugar load helped him make it through and it cheered him up, so it served it’s purpose doubly.

Saturday I was all set to go out with The Dude for an evening of inebriation, his not mine.  He flaked out on me.  It worked out in my favor.  I fell asleep at something like 6 pm and didn’t wake up until about 11 pm, when I sat up long enough to say goodnight to Marky and went back to sleep until 9 am today.  Apparently I needed a good night’s sleep.

Now here we are again, the middle of the night - time for me to wrap it up and go to bed.  I’m frustrated as hell because I can’t get images on the static pages on bestsexbloggers.com and it better not be a template issue.  If it is, I’m lucky that JC will come to my rescue and fix it.

No graceful way out of this blog post - I’m just tired and it’s time to end.  Goodnight, people…  Oh and FetLife rocks.  It is 3:46 am.  Buenas noches.

How could it be Wednesday already?  It was just Friday.  I was just shooting the penthouse set with Altered Aperture yesterday, I swear.  How did this happen?  I was sitting here trying to recount my week so that I could convey it, because if there’s one thing I can say about my life, it’s not boring.  Just writing about my daily life is entertainment enough, and it’s the only place where I can just write and not craft.

We (Quid Pro Quo) started working with Sgt. Major and Backdoorbondage.com this week.  We’re pretty excited about that because we consider Sgt. Major a personal friend, so working with him has been and will be nothing but a joy.  I simply adore his girl, she’s the sweetest, yet filthiest, girl I’ve met in a while.

I have had a great time being involved with John from FetLife on a couple of projects.  I joined FetLife, became a greeter, and now John is someone I truly consider a friend, a genuine friend (You Rock, John!)  I can’t go a day without talking to him now.  I digress… One project was having banners made.  It started with images from Lochai (http://kirinawa.com) and the graphic design work of our Naughty Secretary.  It has since become an album of over a hundred banners submitted by FetLife members.  Banner selection is good.  You can’t really have too many quality banners of all kinds of flavors and sizes - people want to be able to pick one that goes with their site.  Now I need to write a little .html code box for them and get them on the banners page on FetLife.  The question is, will I put them up and do it or will John?  Again, I have no idea when he’ll have time to do it, but when he does, they’ll be ready!  In the meantime, I’m going to throw one up on my banners page here!  Link up to FetLife if you want to be associated with a very cool, growing, social network for kinky folks.

The other project was getting real FetLife members to submit images of themselves for the front page - the idea being we would rotate the images and link to the member’s site.  It has become an album of hundreds of images, literally.   Now I have to dig through them and select x number of images.  The implementation of it will be a bitch.  To keep track of which profile goes with which image is a bitch on my end, and I bet changing the code won’t be that fun for John.  Who knows the timeline on that project.  Right now it’s just collect images.  That I can do.  The upside for me is that I’ve written to several of the contributors and asked for permission to use their images on my blogs, so you’ll get to see some of the sexiest ones just because you know me.  How about that?!  See, you have connections, my friend.

I am more in love with my husband than ever, despite my desire (and his) to fuck everybody we are friends with.  He pulled off some pretty impressive shit this week and I’m way proud of him.  He also picked me up, the Princess Carry is what we all it in our house, the way a groom carries his bride over the threshold, and threw me on the bed and had his way with me.  That was fucking hot.

Fortunately, the timing is perfect for Tina Peitsche to start submitting things to Catalina Loves.  I posted a seriously hot tale of her first adventure with a gasmask and it was the first time I actually even considered trying it out.  Then she also submitted a kick ass review of a very good book, Erotic Signature Volume II.   Not only did I need someone to help me keep good content going on Catalina Loves while I focus more energy into our PR and Marketing business, but the book she reviewed contains one of Lochai’s award-winning images, “Curves“, so how could I not post it?  It’s Lochai related!  Of course, it’s also one of the best books for people like us to own.  All of the best erotic photography in a coffee table book with class.  Last year, Lochai’s “Beach Bound” was voted Most Erotic Photograph in volume I.  Did I mention that I adore Lochai?

There are a million other things to write, because I haven’t written for days - here’s the skinny.  There is still so much to do before bestsexbloggers.com can launch.  I joined skype and still haven’t used it.  I joined Twitter, and I’m psyched about it and I’m addicted to it already.  Firefox has a nice little Twitterfox plug-in that Curvaceous Dee taught me all about.  Now I’m a twittering fool!  Follow me and I’ll follow you :)

I have a thousand things to write.  A million more things to say.  Like I’m officially D’s Goobermilf, and I have to add a thousand different links to my blogrolls, and I am writing for Trufetish.com now, and also for IntotheAttic.com’s blog.  It’s good to expand.  I had a nice chat with my friend, what will I officially call him on my blog?  He needs a name.  I can’t use his initials - they are taken.  I’m going to call him TD (The Dude).  if he reads my blog, I know he’s clever enough to figure out why his name is officially The Dude.  We live five miles max from each other and chatted for hours online… neither of us wanted to leave home.  Now that we don’t work together anymore, we are real friends rather than work friends.

That’s got to be it.  It’s 5:30 am and I haven’t slept yet.  It’s not that I don’t sleep ever.  I sleep like 5 hours a night.  So MDS gets up with the kids, cause he’s awesome, and I’ll sleep till like 11.  Today is going to be great!  I’m going running with TD at 3:00.  It’s been a couple of days.

Quick Thoughts:

• Marky D. Sade, I love you more than I ever have.
• My friends are amazing and I am unbelievably lucky to have them.
• I had two orgasms today and I’m about to wake up MDS with a blow job…specifically for D, who said to do it as if I were giving it to him.  Ok.  I take orders well.  I give them well, too.  He has to take pictures in and out of his hot suit!
• I adore Lochai.
• I really hope Graydancer joins our kinky little sexblogger cult with his awesomeness.
• I wish the timing would work out for me to get a little visit in to Mr. F soon.

Life is good.  In a nutshell, life is pretty good.  Friday night I went out to dinner with M, my regular Friday night dinner with a twist.  Instead of just going to my favorite restaurant in Charlotte, we went to my favorite restaurant in Charlotte with Nikki and her girl, Mia.   We ate the most delicious dinner, had some yummy martinis and went back to M’s place.  M happens to make a lot of money.  I won’t say more, there’s no need to.  But he lives in a very nice penthouse apartment in uptown Charlotte, so we went back to M’s place to chill out and do a really nice “Penthouse Bondage” shoot.  Not only did Nikki get some nice images of me, but she also tied up Mia and took some shots of her as well.  M got to watch.  That was his reward.  He got to take three beautiful women out to dinner, then watch as Ms. Nikki Nefarious tied up Catalina in his living room and then later Mia.  He did say it was a banner day for him.  I’m sure that is true.  I was excited because Nikki and Mia are the first of my friends that I’ve introduced to M.  As soon as I get some of the images, you can bet I’ll share them with you!

Let’s see, what else?  I have been working on some FetLife projects.  FetLife totally rocks and I’ve become friends with the FetLife man, John.  We are working on a project to get some new banners and code, and also to get new images of real kinksters on FetLife for the front page.  It seemed like a small project, as most of the things I do seem, but it’s become quite an event.  I have to say though, I love it.  I also started a FetLife/JohnBaku Fan Club.   I always call myself the FetLife official unofficial fan club leader, and people thought there was a real fan club, so I made one!  Join up!

I finally joined the ranks of the cool kids and signed up with Skype and Twitter.  Now you can follow me around.  I’m CatalinaLoves on both of them.  Pretty obvious.   Curvaceous Dee finally helped me set up my Google Reader.  Yes, I’m that lame that I didn’t use RSS feeds, I just jumped bookmark to bookmark.   I’ve gotten to know her quite well and I really like her a lot!

W is finally home from Oregon, so for the most part our time has been spent balancing being parents and work.  Quid Pro Quo, our PR and Marketing firm, is doing very well and we have new clients that we want to work with, so we’re excited!  It’s now a balancing act of having a home business, writing, parenting, social lives, sex lives, friends, music, smoking out, running, meditating, and at some point eating and sleeping.

I need to, in fact, quit writing this post even though there are more words in my tummy because I just also started writing for Trufetish.com and I owe them a story and a bio and all of that.  I also have bestsexbloggers.com, which isn’t even live yet that I’m working on.  Oh My!  I need a secretary, a housekeeper, a nanny, a submissive, and a personal assistant (that wants to work for free).  Know anyone?

I guess this is as good a time as any to wrap it up and move on.  There is real smut to write.  Like how I’m planning a couple of really hot group activities…  that’s a post for another blog and another day!

OMG - I can’t believe I almost forgot to mention Lochai!  One of the best parts of being Catalina is having Lochai in your cell phone and getting a text that says, “Cum for me”.

This week’s Good Things List is brought to you by the letter V (for valium) and the number 10 (for the dose)… and readers like you!  (PS: JOIN FETLIFE!)

A Good Blog To Read

Narration by D is this week’s blog pick.  D is the counterpart of another of my favorite blogs Thursday’s Child.  It says in his profile: “From the male perspective, the exploration of a young married couple beyond vanilla sex.”   D is in my BILF list.  His wife is also in my BILF list.  They as a couple are in my BILF list.  Now we just have to figure out how to get into the same state and city!

A Good Toy

I have just gotten my new shipment of toys to review for Vibe Review and I haven’t even formally reviewed it yet on my blog, but so far I can tell you that I adore the Cyberglass Felicity.  I have just recently gotten into glass/pyrex dildos and this one is a perfect starter because of the low price.  You can warm it under some hot water in the sink or you can cool it in the refrigerator for a while (it comes in a nice case, by the way!).  You can use either end, you can play with it vaginally or anally.  I just love it!  Vibe Review happens to be a great company to do business with - a classy online toy company that has a good reputation.  That matters!

A Good Photographer

Erocrush.  Melvin Moten, Jr. is Erocrush.  His work is special to me.  He is special to me.  I consider him a very good friend.  He allows me to use his images all the time on my blogs.  I know that you have enjoyed them.  Like Lochai, who I’m in love with, Melvin isn’t shooting for the porn content market.  He shoots fetish and erotic art that he enjoys.  With real women, that he enjoys.  With real couples.  One thing I noticed about Melvin’s work is that his models obviously feel so natural with him that they forget he’s even there.  It’s as though you’re actually there, in the scene, a voyeur.  I love Melvin.  I want Melvin to shoot me.  With any luck at all, this fall, he will.  Then I will have my way with him!  If you click on the (perfect) image in this post (by Erocrush) it will magically take you to his site.  Fear not! It will open in a new window and you won’t lose the Good Things List!

A Good Pay Site

Inescapable Bondage is January Seraph’s new content site.  She has been shooting their own content like crazy.  She and her hotter than hell partner-in-crime, Smutty, have been violating all kinds of men and women.  This is Brand Spanking New!  January isn’t, of course.  She’s got a great reputation as a top model and actress already, but this site is so new that you’re probably the first one you know to see it! 

A Good Blogger Resource

The Week In Kink.  Duh.  I sat here and tried to think about this one for a while and then I realized, if you’re a good blogger and you have good posts, then you should send me a little note.  Each week I go through blogs that I like and pick the hottest posts and then publish them on TheWeekInKink.Com.  I just want to be clear that I’m not trying to compete with Sugasm.  It’s not a democracy - it’s just a list of my top favoritest, hottest, made me want to masturbate posts.  :)

A Good Group

It’s widely known that I love FetLife.  I’m an official greeter there now, which makes me feel extra special.  What makes me feel super, duper special, though, is starting a new Charlotte Kinksters group (it’s called Charlotte, NC - The Queen of Kink, since we are the Queen City!)  If you join FetLife you can join the Charlotte Kinky group.  The idea is that we could all get together for informal gatherings and have a little community here that isn’t quite as formal as CAPEX.

A Good Alternative Education Resource/CommUNITY Source

This is the place to go to find professional alternative educators, presenters, event planners, vendors, dm/security/medical, legal, volunteers, and more.  Everybody claims to be a sex educator, but this group is truly respected within the commUNITY as the leaders in their fields.  Now, you can learn from them.  Oh, it’s no coincidence you’ll find Lochai there.  Wouldn’t you die to take a bondage class with Lochai?  Oh my…  You can also take classes with people like Claire Adams.  OMG.  I’m in heaven.