Entries Tagged 'Madison Young' ↓
October 31st, 2008 — Audacia Ray, BestSexBloggers.com, Blogs, Bondage, Fetish, Lochai, Madison Young, Mz. Berlin, NYC, Photos, Politics, Recommendations, The Week In Kink

Photos of Rachel Kramer Bussel by HilaryMcHonePhotography.com
Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week! Vote on Tuesday for Obama!!
::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::
October 18th, 2008 — Altered Aperture, BestSexBloggers.com, Blogs, Bondage, Claire Adams, Fetish, Fundraising, Madison Young, Movies, Ms Nikki Nefarious, Mz. Berlin, Photos, Recommendations, The Week In Kink

Trust Me... Does That Look Like A Girl Who Would Steer You Wrong?
Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week! Thanks to Altered Aperture who makes me all pretty and then captures it on camera time and time again.
::psst… for more hot sex blog links go to Sugasm.com::
October 15th, 2008 — Audacia Ray, Blogs, Email, Madison Young, Movies, NYC, Press Releases, Quid Pro Quo, Recommendations, Shopping, Stuff and Things, Websites

Life is moving at the speed of sound. Yesterday I spent a good portion of my day and evening working on a press release for the In The Flesh Reading Series Oral Sex Night and today I started on press releases for the NYC Sex Blogger 2009 Limited Edition Calendar Launch Party and Dacia’s Love Machine’s World Premiere at the Berlin Porn Film Festival. My favorite moment of the day happened when discussing the press release with Dacia, who owes me a quote for the final draft. I have to share the moment - it went something like this:
- Me: “Don’t worry, I can always get a quote from you from Berlin.”
- Dacia: “the only problem with that is that is it might be a little tricky with me being all whooping it up in Berlin.”
- Me: “iPhone, baby!”
- Dacia: “what I’m trying to say is that I may be too drunk/knee deep in french lesbians”
And that, ladies and gentlemen, is why I love Audacia Ray! Go to DaciasLoveMachine.com and download the film that will be screening at the film festival in Berlin. It’s the funniest movie and seriously, with everybody as tense as they are lately, we could use some ha ha’s. So throw down the $2.99 and download Dacia’s Love Machine and then be prepared to laugh your ass off. I love my job.
I was planning my trip to New York for the calendar launch party (November 14th, Meet Me There!!) and it kind of looks like this: Stay Thursday night with Tess, Friday night with Tess and Diva at the hotel, Saturday night at Dacia’s, and then have a leisurely breakfast before heading back home on Sunday. You should seriously pre-order your calendar if you are planning to buy one. They are limited and they are going to sell out, so if you’re planning to buy it, don’t let the grass grow under your feet (::hint hint::).
I was also planning my trip to see The Butterfly Temptress today. I was thinking that I would maybe take the Greyhound for the first time ever, like see it as an adventure and an opportunity to blog about something weird and new to me, Say Yes To It! I was all psyched, thinking it would cost like $50.00 to get to where I’m going, maybe $100. It was more than an airline ticket. What?! Holy Crap. Why do people take the Greyhound then? That is so baffling. So I looked up Amtrak, because I thought - train = adventure = Yes! No. Amtrak was almost twice that of an airline ticket. So why would anybody spend 18 hours on a train at twice the expense of a two hour flight? I don’t get it. For real. How do they stay in business? I’m so flexible with the dates that I can go to visit her that I think I will ultimately put in a $99.00 bid on Priceline and try to get a cheap ticket. Who knew? I’m shocked.
Changing topics (drastically): Madison Young is so unbelievable! If you are going to be in Minneapolis this weekend, you have to check out her reading at Smitten Kitten. I still have a movie of hers to review on CatalinaLoves.com and an interview to do with her! Don’t think I’ve forgotten, but in fact just really behind on my own content to do work for other people. As a good friend once taught me, “My work suffers so yours doesn’t.” Anyway, we were talking today about her press release and she said that she would send me an autographed copy of her limited addition Madison Young’s Erotic Breast Self Exam Posters. I can’t wait. I’ll frame it and hang it in my office/bedroom! At some point, I’ll have quite the erotic art collection. I think I have a good start! You can get your own, this is the good thing about reading my blog - see, I give you the inside scoop on where to go. Go to the Femina Potens Art Gallery and look at Store -> Art From Exhibits -> Present and then you can scroll down and see what I’m talking about and buy one for yourself!
Well, it’s 11:15 and for the first time today, even though we are both at home working, I’m going to spend some time with Marky. Buy a calendar, check out Madison’s appearance in Minneapolis and the Femina Potens Art Gallery, plan to meet me at the launch party on November 14th in NYC, and download Dacia’s Love Machine and watch it. You’ve got a lot on your to-do list now :-)
October 2nd, 2008 — Altered Aperture, BestSexBloggers.com, Blogs, Email, FetLife, Fetish, Fundraising, Hogtied, Lochai, Madison Young, Movies, Politics, Press Releases, Stuff and Things

Image from Postsecret.com
So here’s something interesting - a twitter from Mistress Matisse saying, “Am I really going to be unable to find even 1 BDSM person who’s voting for McCain & will go on record as to why?” So, if you’re a BDSM lifestyler in support of McCain, please get in touch. For more information, read Mistress Matisse’s LiveJournal entry. I think there must be at least one BDSM person who is a staunch Republican.
I spent most of my morning contacting BDSM and fetish event coordinators to talk about advertising their event(s) on Fetlife.com. We find more and more every day that this market really has a need for event promotion and by targeting by location (even the surrounding states) we are able to really help them get the word out and we fit into their budget. I love a good win-win situation! The same seems to apply to sex clubs (no, not strip clubs, but BDSM clubs and adult oriented play clubs). You can always email me about Fetlife advertising - my email address is Catalina@Fetlife.com.
My afternoon was spent going through email and then uploading some new pictures that I just got back from Altered Aperture to my Model Mayhem profile. I’m allowed 20 pics, so I might as well use them! There is a little bit of everything there now. I’ve actually heard from several photographers, which I found to be very odd, but it’s a big world and I suppose there’s room in it for a “mature” model. It is weird to be small enough for a photographer to put me in a size six wedding dress and take shots for his portfolio. Why not, though? I never have worn a wedding dress, I kind of want the wedding I never had pictures! Oh, it’s not that we didn’t have pictures, but we wore our pajamas and got married in our living room by our hippie friend who was an ordained minister in some hippie church. They are all black and white and I wish I had them in digital so I could post some. (No, I don’t have a scanner.)
Lochai posted today about his First Official Shoot at Hogtied.com. I’m pretty excited to see it. Lochai isn’t the only change at Kink.com - they have officially launched a new site: Public Disgrace. According to the press release, “Helmed by WiredPussy.com director and prolific star Princess Donna, the site features gorgeous women being tied up, humiliated and fucked in public, particularly on city streets throughout Europe.” Yum, public sex. I have had a chance to take a peek, and I assure you, it’s a voyeur’s wet dream.
Also in my inbox was a press release from Madison Young about an event at Femina Potens Art Gallery which, honestly I should repost in its entirety:
SAN FRANCISCO, CALIFORNIA - October 1, 2008 - Madison Young and Abigail Productions present “Bust Ed” artwork around breast cancer awareness and breast health. Please allow us to tease, tantalize, and captivate you with our dirty pillows. “Bust Ed” celebrates the lovely and erotic nature of the bosom, while reminding everyone of the way breast cancer affects our lives.
“I’ve watched as my friends and family members have battled breast cancer. Breast Cancer Awareness and early detection are a crucial issue in women’s health and effect us all. Bringing together a body of artists who are all creating art around visibility of breast cancer, survival, strength, and unity with in our community allows us to dialogue and take action around this disease.” says Madison Young, curator and founder of Femina Potens.
This exhibit allows for audience participation in everything from designing nipples for Laura Drugal’s reconstructive surgery to witnessing the live body casting of breast cancer survivors to be added to Mary Ellen Scherel’s “Mamorial”. Madison Young will have limited edition autographed posters of her Erotic Breast Self Exam available for purchase as a monthly reminder to examine and care for your breasts.
Artists Annie Sprinkle, Elizabeth Stephens, Madison Young, Jennifer Clary, Laura Drugal, Mary Ellen Scherel, and Talia Green all address this prevalent issue with their art. Join us to pay tribute to the mighty and healthy breast for the opening reception October 9, 2008 at 7pm – 10 pm. Show runs October 9 through October 26, 2008.
Bust Ed is sponsored by Abigail productions www.abigailproductions.com
“Bust Ed” Visual Art Exhibition
October 9 - 26, 2008
Femina Potens Art Gallery
2199 Market Street
San Francisco, CA 94114
Visit feminapotens.org for more information.
Well that pretty much covers the weird world of Catalina for the day. Oh, I did add new contributors to BestSexBloggers.com, so cruise on over there and check out some of the new writing. Now it’s time to work on The Week in Kink for tomorrow and I have to pick out a new rabbit vibe to review.
September 29th, 2008 — Bondage, Domination, Fetish, Lochai, Madison Young, Movies, Press Releases

Madison Young by Lochai (http://kirinawa.com)
No secrets at this house - Madison Young has an open invitation, whether it’s in the DVD player or in person. The latest movie she sent me looks amazing! Here is the press release that accompanies it. My review will be posted soon on CatalinaLoves.com.
For Immediate Release
September 27, 2008
Kinky Girl Next Door - Real Life Submissive Madison Young Releases a New Lesbian BDSM Film
“Her lust was fanned by the sting of a whip. She needed the pain to orgasm. She was caught in Perversions of Lesbian Lust”
Perversions of Lesbian Lust is a very hot exploration into BDSM play and the search for the perfect kinky lover. Madison let’s us into her intimate story of discovering herself in kink and trying BDSM with her vanilla girlfriend, played by Lorelei Lee. Madison then goes searching for pain in all the right places and video tapes herself in a beautiful solo masochistic masturbation scene that involves Madison tying herself up in bondage, gagging herself, a brutal caning, and applying clothes pins to her pink meaty cunt that she slaps with fury as she fucks her ass with a dildo and practices auto-erotic asphyxiation.
“This is how I like to get off”. says Young. ”When I was looking for partners or was living apart from my partner, I would still want to engage in bdsm and found it incredibly pleasurable to tie myself up and to cane myself. I would get lost in the sensations and it would just heighten every bit of sexual energy that I was embracing.”
Finally Madison finds her match in the very sexy Dylan Ryan.
“Not all bdsm and ds relationships are 24/7. I wanted to show that you can have a sweet and loving relationship with your partner and then play with power exchange and sm with in those relationships on certain days of the week.”
Madison Young lets us into her deepest perversions as she tells the story of her first kinky relationship. Dylan and Madison were like any other lesbian couple. They went off to work at 9am to their high power executive jobs and snuggled up to watch movies after dinner. But their Sunday mornings were a little…different. Sunday mornings Dylan Ryan became the dominant lesbian Mistress of Madison Young’s dreams. Madison would live to serve Ms Ryan as she was fucked with lustful passion, made to crawl around on her hands and knees, clamped, caned, stuffed full of butt plug, punished,caged, and tortured with water all in the name of lesbian love.
Released by Madison Bound Productions and award winning director Madison Young. Email Sherri Holloway at sherri@abigailproductions.com for distribution of Perversions of Lesbian Lust
Madison Young is an international award-winning bondage model and pornstar. Ms. Young has been awarded “Best SM Suspension Model” by Bishop Awards and was the submissive star of last year’s AVN Award-Winning BDSM video. She has been directing BDSM and erotic films since 2005 and has won great acclaim for her video line, Madison Bound Productions. Madison Bound Productions has been awarded the 2008 Feminist Porn Awards and has been gaining attention from the erotic film festival circuit.
According to Young, “Our high quality productions, girl-next-door appeal, and hardcore queer sex in a bright, sex-positive atmosphere is what our fans are drawn to. It’s porn that couples watch together, appealing to both a straight/queer and kinky/vanilla audience.”
Ms. Young intends on revolutionizing the porn industry one wanker at a time with hot, aggressive queer and kinky rough sex. When Madison isn’t performing and directing, she is running her own non-profit feminist arts organization, Femina Potens Art Gallery (www.feminapotens.org) , which has produced over 200 LGBT art events in the last four years.
September 27th, 2008 — Altered Aperture, Audacia Ray, Blogs, Bondage, Books, Ellie Lumpesse, Email, FetLife, Fetish, Hogtied, Interviews, Lochai, Madison Young, Ms Nikki Nefarious, Quid Pro Quo, Reviews, Stuff and Things, The Dude, Websites, Weight Loss

Another Image From "Home" in Oregon
YAY! Ellie is here!
Today was an interesting day. It was supposed to go like this: Fetish Fair Fleamarket, yoga with Susan and The Dude, and then home for an evening with or without Ellie and J, depending on whether or not they attend Purgatory tonight. We figured it made sense for us to try to go on behalf of Quid Pro Quo, good PR for our own PR company. Here’s how it went: I drove to South Carolina to pick up W from a sleepover, canceled yoga with Susan and The Dude, went to the Fetish Flea Market and came home. Ellie and J are still out and about and are thinking about going to Purgatory. I know myself well enough to know that Purgatory isn’t my scene.
It was interesting that at the fetish event there was an entire workshop dedicated to a face-to-face meeting of people from a Fetlife.com group. We didn’t even know that there was a Fetlife centered workshop. We walked through the door, unsure we were in the right place, and introduced ourselves as being a part of Fetlife and sat down to listen to what they had to say. It was neat to hear again and again how Fetlife has become a central part of their lives, a way to keep in touch on a daily basis with their family. It was really quite touching. I came home and told John all about it. He couldn’t believe it, and then he received an email from someone who was at the workshop/meeting who had written to tell him how important Fetlife and how it has really meant a lot to them to have a place to feel at home. Nice! John, you are changing the world!
I found a few nice corsets at the fleamarket, but it was difficult to find my size. Now WTF?! When I was a larger size I couldn’t find a nice corset that fit and now that I am small, I can’t find a corset that fits. Today all the corsets were too big or the few I found that were 22″ were like $500.00. If I’m going to invest that kind of money into a corset it’s going to be custom made for me. Doesn’t it seem to you like someone should make a corset for me so that I can promote the fuck out of their corsetry business? I would work for trade. Hey you corset seamstresses - are you listening? :)
Cleis Press sent me Tristan Taormino’s new book, Opening Up, to review. I have only heard good things about it and as a polyamorous soul married to a monoromantic, an open relationship can be a challenge - so not ony am I looking forward to a good read for the review, but also I am hoping to get something out of it personally. Well, that’s where the best reviews come from, anyway - though a book can be good and still not really be appealing to you.
I dd hear from my NYC friends that they are all getting set for tomorrow’s shoot. No alcohol, strict orders by the photographer will make for a less interesting evening, though if you put those 12 women in the same room, I don’t think it matters, the energy alone would be intoxicating!
Next week’s posts on Catalina Loves are going to be really good, if I do say so myself. I have an interview with Kink.com CEO Peter Acworth, a very good toy review on Tuesday, Lochai starts his new job with Hogtied.com Monday, so there will be lots of Lochai news, there is an interview waiting for me to post from Sgt. Major, who is a Kink.com dom, but also owns his own site: BackdoorBondage.com. I also have to write an interview for Madison Young, who sent me her new movie (w00t!) and hopefully Nikki will have some new images ready for me next week from our photoshoot this week. That’s a lot of good stuff, and that’s off the top of my head, so set make sure you subscribe and get all the goodness that there is.
Alright, enough babble for now. I swear upon all things holy that I will get through my email this weekend. It’s become a huge priority at this point!
September 25th, 2008 — Andreas Troeger, Blogs, Books, Ellie Lumpesse, Madison Young, Movies, Mz. Berlin, Recommendations, Stuff and Things, The Femme's Guide, Trufetish.com, Websites, Weight Loss

Click The Pic For The Secret To How I Lost Weight
So I went to the new yoga class today and it was terribly disappointing. I felt like I was in an hour long stretch class, very gentle yoga with a nap at the end. There was no shakti in the room, no energy to go with it. Just a sterile gym with a lady who knows some poses. I’m sure she’s a certified yoga instructor, but I think that if a yoga instructor can’t do downward dog with her feet flat on the floor, she probably shouldn’t be instructing. I am a yoga snob, so it seems. Back to Power Basics Vinyasa hot yoga on Saturday with the nice vibe at Yoga One. I love the challenge of it, how I have to push my body beyond where I thought I could go because my mind limited me. To overcome mental obstacles in yoga manifests in every day life all the time. On a positive note about today’s adventure out to the new gym - the facility itself is really nice and I got to run for 2 miles after the yoga class, so I do feel like I got the energy boost I needed.
I’m really into reading Andreas Troeger’s books and watching his DVDs. Take a look at TechnologyArtist.com and click on Buy DVDs. No, it won’t automatically debit your account a bajillion dollars, it will just take you to the two DVDs that I’m going to watch and review for my blog. I just need kid-free focus time to watch them, they look intense! Included in my little surprise package (Thanks!!) were Troeger’s two books. Click on Books on the left and you’ll find Anti Biography and Which Ones Are The Terrorists? WestBank.cam, which are both equally compelling, but require even more time and focus. So expect to see more about those soon, but not next week soon.
I found this article, called Nine Cold, Hard Weight Loss Truths on Divine Caroline today. I’ve been reading that site a lot lately - like any magazine, there are some things there that I just will probably never read, but today I read this and I thought I would share it with you. One of the most common email questions I get to my inbox is How did you lose all that weight? and the fact is, I did what everybody in the whole world knows how to do - I ate less and I exercised with purpose and intensity. Anyway, take a look at the cold, hard truth. It’s worth reading again.
Well, back to work. W is home from her game tonight and then I have to run across town for an errand and back and then I still need to write something for CatalinaLoves.com and my article for TruFetish.com is due tomorrow. Not to mention that I should write something current for The Femmes Guide and it would be at good manners to comment on a few of my favorite blogs! Tomorrow W stays the night with a friend and we’re expecting Ellie for a visit. She’s here for the Fetish Fair Fleamarket where she’ll be doing a demo. I will also be there, just to wander about and see what’s good. If you’re planning to go, I hope to see you there!
Oh random - a package just arrived in the mail from Madison Young with her movie, Perversions of Lesbian Lust (Volume 1). I’m pretty excited about that - on the back cover is a still from the movie and I said to Marky, “Oh, it’s her infamous ’sex mouth’ that you love.” You have to know the exact look to know what I mean, but Mz Berlin comes close in this image. Anyway, I am so hot for Madison Young I can’t stand it! I know what I’ll be watching tonight!
September 23rd, 2008 — Blogs, Bondage, Books, Fetish, Fundraising, Lochai, M, Madison Young, Movies, Ms Nikki Nefarious, Networking, Recommendations, Reviews, Stuff and Things, The Femme's Guide
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[Image from Postsecret.com
You play… you pay. That was what my Mom would say as she punished me as a child. Well, I’m paying in spades. Too much play means I’m way behind on work. Last night
M and I decided at the last minute to go out for drinks, which gave me an excuse to wear my new clothes. Before that I made a trip in to Charlotte for a separate errand. Saturday I went to
yoga with Susan. Basically, I got a blog post or two written and that was it. I have a bajillion emails that I starred in gmail to respond to when I have time. Now I have to devote time to responding or else they just fall off the page. I need to get my ass in gear and work!
Sometimes it’s a fine line between playing and working. Today, for example, I was totally playing, yet I could say it was a long day at work - we did two different sets of suspension bondage shots, a MILFtastic office pic, a sex nerd photo, and a few other product sets for upcoming reviews. So while I was technically working, I feel like I was away at play all day (plus I wasn’t at home). I did come home and review a Madison Young movie I watched recently. Is that work or play? A combination of both, really.
I am really excited to dive into the Better Sex Through Yoga 3 DVD Series
that Garvey sent to me. I reviewed his book a few months ago. In his package he also sent fascinating documentaries and books that I will keep a mystery for now. They are completely unrelated to yoga.
I am re-watching Joseph Campbell’s DVDs, The Power of Myth
. If you have never seen it, I highly recommend it. If you have seen it, but it’s been a while, you should re-watch it. I’ve gained so much more from watching it this time. The timing was perfect - I came home from yoga with a sense of being connected to the collective unconscious and present in the moment and watched Joseph Campbell talking about living in the moment and following your bliss. I realize it is exactly what I’ve done. I have taken The Hero’s Journey
and this makes me incredibly proud. Slaying dragons. Seriously - (re)watch it.
I’m a weirdo in that I own copies of the Stanford Prison Experiment and the Obedience Experiment and I’ve watched them both with W - it helped her to understand Abu Ghraib and other crimes against humanity. She also taught her art teacher about Fernando Botero’s art exhibit of his interpretation of the Abu Ghraib images. I thought that was kind of cool, actually.
Other things worth noting before abruptly ending this post:
My friend, Tess, is on a “Cleavage of the Day” strike. Until the terms of her demands are met, there will be no boobs. Please, people - for the good of humanity, do whatever it is she asks - we need daily cleavage shots! Tess’ boobs make the day so much easier to greet.
The 6 Degrees of Catalina list is growing each day - there are about 200 people on the mailing list and people are starting to put in calls for submissions for anthologies, etc. So I think I’ll give it a shot. If you are somehow related to the sex writing, sex blogging, podcasting, sex education, BDSM, fetish, erotic art scene (including the techies that keep us together!) and would like to be added to the list, please send me an email at catalinaloves@gmail.com and put “6 Degrees” in the subject line. I’ll add you automatically.
Alternatively, if you have a request for the list, please send it to me using that same email link. There are currently a few things in the queue including calls for submission for anthologies that sex bloggers might be interested in. It would be nice to see variety in the list - someone must need something? No?
Roxy Harte wrote a really interesting post on the Femmes Guide called “How-To Guide For Female Ejaculation” that is worth reading for all of you who are seeking out the squirting experience. Obviously, I thought it was interesting and worth mentioning.
Welcome Home to Lochai, Janice, and the Kitties! I am certain that this weekend you will feel your new CommUNITY welcome you with warm arms.
A final plea - please buy a day on the NYC Sex Bloggers 2009 Calendar. You don’t have to be a sex blogger and you don’t have to have a product to sell. You could send a special message to a special someone, you could put your anniversary there, you could write a message of peace, love, and hope to the world. Keep in mind that you are paying $10 for the day, but that day shows for 30 days! Please, I beg of you - I need the Cleavage of the Day to survive.
September 16th, 2008 — Books, FetLife, La Profesora, Lochai, Madison Young, Movies, Networking, Reviews, Spanking, Stuff and Things, The Dude, Toys, Weight Loss

Postcard from Postsecret.com
It’s hard to make a title and then write on CatalinaSays.com, because I generally just start writing and whatever ends up coming to my mind, I write about, then at the end I try to make sense of it and add an image. Nothing makes sense today - this image has nothing to do with anything and it’s linked (click it) to an old post I wrote about being Mrs. Robinson on CatalinaLoves.com, which also has nothing to do with anything.
For example, today I traded a baby for a dog. No, not literally. I took S to the sitter’s house and The Dude brought his pup over today for us dogsit. It turns out, it’s easier to take care of a semi-potty-trained puppy than a semi-potty-trained preschooler. Our cats behaved vehemently. The poor pup was scared of them. She spent most of the day hiding between Marky’s feet.
Cleis Publishing contacted me today — I’m writing a review of Rachel Kramer Bussel’s
book, Spanked
, which is an anthology of (yep, you guessed it) spanking stories for Amazon.com
. Marky and I together are reviewing her oral anthologies, Tasting Him
and Tasting Her
. They are super(duper) hot! What’s the connection? Rachel Kramer Bussel had given them my contact information to be added to the 6 Degrees of Catalina Networking project I am working on. Thanks, RKB!
I ate my first McDonald’s cheeseburger in over 18 months tonight. That’s worth noting. I don’t eat fast food. However, my family does and for dinner tonight they wanted McDonald’s. In my attempts to be a more reasonable person, I am trying to adapt to their life more. So I ate a cheeseburger. According to their site, that little cheeseburger was 300 calories. By those same figures I used to eat 1,300 calories in a meal. I also ate a Nutri-grain bar today.
If you were on the edge of your seat over the quilt that was sent by La Profesora, yes, it made it here and it is unbelievably beautiful and an absolute heirloom. W and S have both tried to claim it. Nice try, I’m still alive.
Now I’m expecting a package from Liberator. They have a new shape that I’m going to try out! I’m pretty excited about that. The challenge will be, how many different ways can we use this? I love a good challenge. If I’m not mistaken, they are also sending a Throe to me, which I’ve been looking forward to for quite some time, since first hearing about them! Thank you, Liberator, for the chance to review for you again! I absolutely adore your products.
I considered moving to San Francisco for a few seconds, then came back to reality. Of course, that’s where Lochai will be - The Armory. My dream job, I think, is at Kink.com. I want the job with the clipboard where you get to tell men (and women) to undress. If only…
Well, I still have a movie review to write - Madison Young sent me her new movie, “Lesbian Life: Real Sex San Francisco”. I watched it last night and so now it’s time to put it into words. I’ve got to say, I think that where she has done a really nice job is in providing a lesbian porno for actual lesbians, which is a very special niche in the industry that is underrepresented. I think she’s really smart to market a real lesbian movie rather than porno lesbians. It’s not that they’re unattractive, the women in the movie, it’s just that they’re not the blonde haired, blue-eyed, fake boob bimbos that I think of when I think of porno lesbians. In my opinion, real and authentic is always preferable, and Madison always brings that to the table.
Three companies have contacted me about writing columns for them this week. I am still waiting to hear the details on that. Getting paid to write would certainly be nice!
So that’s where I end up, it’s such a mishmash of stuff and things.
Oh ya, and buy an ad on Fetlife! Why? Because we just crossed 40,000 members since January! We just passed Bondage.com in our Alexa rating! Because FetLife.com rocks! And Because Catalina Says!
September 9th, 2008 — Blogs, FetLife, Fetish, La Profesora, Madison Young, Movies, Quid Pro Quo, Reviews, Stuff and Things

I Love My Job!
Every day I think my life is weird and then the next day it gets weirder. I think this is actually a good sign.
I’m really psyched that FetLife.com and Quid Pro Quo PR were both given a positive review in The-F-Mag.com. I reposted it on CatalinaLoves.com today. You can read it there, “Catalina loves The-F-Mag.com“, or read the original post, “Are You On Fetlife?” Either way, do me a favor and read it :=)
I wrote the review for Madison Young’s, Undone, today. It will post at midnight on CatalinaLoves.com. It is the first porn (BDSM/Fetish or vanilla) that I’ve reviewed in quite some time. I haven’t done a lot of movie reviews. That’s because I generally don’t enjoy watching porn, but this movie has changed my opinion to be officially, “I don’t enjoy watching most porn, but some porn I really enjoy!”
I sent off a very small email interview for Peter Acworth (Kink.com) yesterday and waiting for his response is like waiting to hear Santa on the roof. If you haven’t yet, you should watch the documentary on BehindKink.com. It is interesting and entertaining at the same time. I like that!
The NYC Sex Writers are working on a calendar project and I’m involved by proxy — which is amazing! I will totally be updating you as the project progresses. It’s my goal to be in NY to celebrate the release with them. I fully expect every single reader to buy a calendar when it’s done. ;-)
Oh My God, For Your Nymphomation is sending me five sex toy cases to use as giveaways on my blog. I’m pretty excited about that!! Thank you so much to FYN!
And now it’s time for me to get back to work. I am working on BackdoorBondageBlog.com and I’ve literally just begun. There is much to do, plus there are other projects I’m working on. Balance, it’s a very delicate balancing act.
Oh, and don’t forget to buy an ad on Fetlife.com :=) Yes, I am going to blatantly state it at the end of every post. Why? Check out our Alexa rating!
Wow, one last thing just happened — my very good friend, an aunt-like mentor, just texted me to tell me that she just confirmed that my handmade just for me quilt is in the mail. Oh, now I have a package to look forward to on Thursday or Friday!! I’ll give her a name since I’ll write about her again. She’ll be known as La Profesora.