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August 5th, 2008 — Altered Aperture, Blogs, Bondage, FetLife, Lochai, Masturbation, Mr. F., Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com), Stuff and Things, bestsexbloggers.com
Graphic Design by Naughty Secretary
Bestsexbloggers.com is officially open for business, I have hung my shingle outside the door and rung the bell. The result is already exciting - sex bloggers and writers from all genres, styles, and every label imaginable combined with the images of the best erotic photographers have made for a very neato place to visit. I’m already hooked, and it’s my blog! Kind of. I mean, I started it and made it, but the result is not the result of my efforts, but the community.
I got the idea for a community blog from Lochai, who introduced me to the notion of commUNITY. We’re not just writing for our readers now, we’re writing for each other - networked tightly - forming the perfect (almost perfect) group of work by intertwining each individual’s. I think it’s nearly orgasmic.
Speaking of orgasmic. A few things worth noting - in case you missed Lochai’s comment on a previous post, it said:
Catalina,
You are by far the most beautiful, wonderful woman in the world (after my wife that is)! This show would be a fraction of what it is if not for you and your er….. talents.
Luv Ya!
L-
Also worth noting is that I called D earlier and masturbated and came for him on his voicemail so he can listen to it over and over again. Soon thereafter I got a call from Thursday, who was clearly on her way to her own orgasm, so while I listened to them fucking, MDS stripped my clothes off of me and threw me on the bed and had his way with me. I came three times, between his cock and his tongue, on the phone, as I listened to D and Thursday getting off together. Um, yum.
When it rains, it pours, right? Here it’s stormy! Kinkerbelle is coming for a visit in a few weeks and we have some good plans! They include me (the star!), Kinkerbelle, MDS, Mr. F, and Altered Aperture - and if we can talk her into it, we’re going to throw Miss Ellie Lumpesse into the middle of it all! (Cross your fingers)
And it’s a good thing I’m on the East Coast or I’d probably already be in the middle of JC and his girl.
That about cover’s the day’s kinky activities. I’m going to go work on the interview I did with Claire Adams. Oh, that got your attention, did it? Yep, keep an eye out and you can read for yourself what she had to say.
Congratulations, Lochai, on a very successful opening night reception at the WEAM! Of course, you were a hit. You’re LOCHAI!! I’m not the *only* one who adores you!
July 5th, 2008 — Blogs, Bondage, Erocrush, FetLife, January Seraph, Lochai, Masturbation, Recommendations, Shopping, The Good Things List, Toys, Websites
This week’s Good Things List is brought to you by the letter V (for valium) and the number 10 (for the dose)… and readers like you! (PS: JOIN FETLIFE!)
A Good Blog To Read
Narration by D is this week’s blog pick. D is the counterpart of another of my favorite blogs Thursday’s Child. It says in his profile: “From the male perspective, the exploration of a young married couple beyond vanilla sex.” D is in my BILF list. His wife is also in my BILF list. They as a couple are in my BILF list. Now we just have to figure out how to get into the same state and city!
A Good Toy
I have just gotten my new shipment of toys to review for Vibe Review and I haven’t even formally reviewed it yet on my blog, but so far I can tell you that I adore the Cyberglass Felicity. I have just recently gotten into glass/pyrex dildos and this one is a perfect starter because of the low price. You can warm it under some hot water in the sink or you can cool it in the refrigerator for a while (it comes in a nice case, by the way!). You can use either end, you can play with it vaginally or anally. I just love it! Vibe Review happens to be a great company to do business with - a classy online toy company that has a good reputation. That matters!
A Good Photographer
Erocrush. Melvin Moten, Jr. is Erocrush. His work is special to me. He is special to me. I consider him a very good friend. He allows me to use his images all the time on my blogs. I know that you have enjoyed them. Like Lochai, who I’m in love with, Melvin isn’t shooting for the porn content market. He shoots fetish and erotic art that he enjoys. With real women, that he enjoys. With real couples. One thing I noticed about Melvin’s work is that his models obviously feel so natural with him that they forget he’s even there. It’s as though you’re actually there, in the scene, a voyeur. I love Melvin. I want Melvin to shoot me. With any luck at all, this fall, he will. Then I will have my way with him! If you click on the (perfect) image in this post (by Erocrush) it will magically take you to his site. Fear not! It will open in a new window and you won’t lose the Good Things List!
A Good Pay Site
Inescapable Bondage is January Seraph’s new content site. She has been shooting their own content like crazy. She and her hotter than hell partner-in-crime, Smutty, have been violating all kinds of men and women. This is Brand Spanking New! January isn’t, of course. She’s got a great reputation as a top model and actress already, but this site is so new that you’re probably the first one you know to see it!
A Good Blogger Resource
The Week In Kink. Duh. I sat here and tried to think about this one for a while and then I realized, if you’re a good blogger and you have good posts, then you should send me a little note. Each week I go through blogs that I like and pick the hottest posts and then publish them on TheWeekInKink.Com. I just want to be clear that I’m not trying to compete with Sugasm. It’s not a democracy - it’s just a list of my top favoritest, hottest, made me want to masturbate posts. :)
A Good Group
It’s widely known that I love FetLife. I’m an official greeter there now, which makes me feel extra special. What makes me feel super, duper special, though, is starting a new Charlotte Kinksters group (it’s called Charlotte, NC - The Queen of Kink, since we are the Queen City!) If you join FetLife you can join the Charlotte Kinky group. The idea is that we could all get together for informal gatherings and have a little community here that isn’t quite as formal as CAPEX.
A Good Alternative Education Resource/CommUNITY Source
This is the place to go to find professional alternative educators, presenters, event planners, vendors, dm/security/medical, legal, volunteers, and more. Everybody claims to be a sex educator, but this group is truly respected within the commUNITY as the leaders in their fields. Now, you can learn from them. Oh, it’s no coincidence you’ll find Lochai there. Wouldn’t you die to take a bondage class with Lochai? Oh my… You can also take classes with people like Claire Adams. OMG. I’m in heaven.
July 4th, 2008 — Blogs, Bondage, Collars, Domination, Fetish, Lochai, Masturbation, Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com), Mz. Berlin, Recommendations, The Week In Kink, Toys
[This beautiful image is of Narration by D. I can't even begin to express how much I want him.]
And please take a few minutes to check out the great posts at True Grime.
So there you have it. The Week In Kink with a few new friends on the
July 3rd, 2008 — Altered Aperture, FetLife, Lochai, Masturbation, Stuff and Things, Toys
JOIN FETLIFE! Only if you’re cool and you like to be around cool people like me! No trolls allowed :)
Thursdays are good days usually. So close to the weekend you can feel it! I do a lot of photoshoots with Nikki on Thursday. In fact, today’s new toy shoot is today. But it’s been a while since we just hung out, Nikki and I, so I’m looking forward to just hanging out and chilling out with her for a while. I hear that she’s bought a paysite, so we’re going to look at the code together and such.
Last night I went to hang out with my friend Mike. I used to teach with him and I haven’t seen him since I quit. He has since learned of my activities and thinks it’s pretty cool. I told him not to read my blogs unless he’s prepared to see more than he is used to seeing. A better way to make a living than teaching, for sure. I am on valium for my shoulder, though, remember? High dose of valium + 3 beers = vomit. I wasn’t feeling good. So I came home around 1:30 and hung out for a while. I do love hanging out with Mike though. He’s 23. I’m 36. It’s nice to feel young.
I got up late today and now it’s time to start the day. I’ve already done a bunch of FetLife stuff. That is fun to do now that I’m an official greeter - I get to get to be even MORE social than usual. I also wrote a hot fantasy for Lochai… just a little one, since it was like 3 am, but… something for him to read anyway. I swear to God if I ever get the chance, I will do whatever that man tells me to do… and with gusto! I’ll stick to sending dirty texts for now.
I did try to masturbate last night, but with so much valium in my body it took like half an hour. I’m not even kidding. My good old Hitachi even got hot. It wasn’t for lack of effort. The filthy thoughts that ran through my mind as I felt my orgasm building for what seemed like forever were fithier than usual even! It just was a matter of being drugged. Finally, I came. It wasn’t earthshattering and I was sad. I went to sleep feeling fairly unsatisfied. MDS was already asleep.
Tonight I’m going to do pics with Nikki (Altered Aperture) and then with any luck at all I’m going to M’s to hang out with him for a little while to smoke out and catch up. He’s been working and out of town a lot and I’ve missed him more than I should. I think tomorrow night we’re going out to dinner, I just don’t know where. He usually does not tell me - he just tells me how to dress for the night and then we meet at his place and he drives. Sadly next month (August) he’ll be gone for a couple of weeks again traveling. Jealousy creeps in.
Our bedroom is much more love nestier now that I’ve kicked out the children’s paraphernalia. It’s a really important thing to me to make sacred spaces in my home. I like to meditate and do yoga in my room, so doing that around the little Tykes playland isn’t so serene.
That’s about it. If I keep writing now, I’ll just be looking for something to say… when I have something important, I’ll write again.
I do have one other opinion. The state of North Carolina has its head up its ass. I paid my car taxes and then got a bill for car taxes for a Lexus I don’t own. Bureaurocracy in this state is worse than anywhere I’ve ever lived. Hooray for Oregon where registration costs $50 for like 3 years, there are no sales/car taxes, and people pump your gas for you. I do really miss Oregon today.
July 1st, 2008 — Bitching, Blogs, Coldplay, FetLife, Masturbation, Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com), Quid Pro Quo, Satine Phoenix, Stuff and Things, The Week In Kink, Toys, Updates, Websites
It’s no secret that I’m an insomniac. Once someone even titled me an insomniatic. I liked him. We had good talks in the middle of the night. It’s a shame that things ended the way they did.
Ok, so enough of that. Today has been an extremely busy day. I moved (with the help of my dear friend Edward at Exjinn Networks) The Week In Kink.com, SatinesBlog.com (not yet live), and soon we’ll be moving Quid Pro Quo PR, which is currently hosted on Wordpress.com. It’s a lot of work to move a blog. You can usually back up your data files, but bookmarks and widgets and links are just gone. *poof*
Aside from that, I had to go through all of the other blogs (10 of them) and add links to the blogrolls and also to the about pages. What a pain in the arse. I live for this shit though. I actually love the details of it. I get off on it. So I’m bitching, but here I sit happily doing it.
I’ve just found out that I am an official FetLife Greeter. I’m a friendly soul, and I’m friendly in multiple languages, so I think I’ll do a good job for them. Besides, I like to be special. I’m like the head FetLife Cheerleader these days. I think John may be worried that I’m trying to take over his empire, but in fact, I’m just trying to take in his empire. (Ha ha, I make wit der sex puns).
I think I have masturbated about eight times since opening my new box from VibeReview.com. I masturbated with Marky D. Sade last night (which ended up in him watching me play with all of my toys). I masturbated alone in the early morning. I masturbated again right after that. And then MDS came home and I masturbated (and fucked him) again! I’m really loving this new batch of toys!!!!
I have tried out the Iris, the Cyberglass Felicity, The Magnificent Vibrating Glove (mine came in fuschia, by the way), The Stubby G, and even the lube! The only thing I haven’t tried yet is the new corset harness, which I’m pretty excited about. By the way, they spell it Corsette Harness if you are searching for it.
Alright, so aside from being Wile E. Coyote, Superblogger and Masturbatrix extraordinaire, I have gotten some normal people things done. I reorganized my sex toy drawers and washed the covers on the Liberator wedge/ramp combo. I was wanting to wash them, dry them, and replace the covers before I finish my official review of the product. I am really hoping that the next thing I receive from Liberator is the Black Label Esse. It seems so perfectly perfect. It would be such a debate. Should we fuck on the Wedge/Ramp combo tonight or on the Esse? What?! The bed? How novel!
Hmmmm. What else? I have started to re-nest my love nest. Now that our baby is three, it’s time to re-claim our space. So I’ve been nesting around a bit. Before we had the baby, W was not allowed in our room except for very special occasions. Now it seems like our bedroom is our family room so it’s time to lay down the law. Pretty easy, since W is still in Oregon. She is still miserable. This is the year that she has decided to hate her stepmonster. I keep quiet about it, believe it or not, and tell her to mind her manners. One of the few things that I think my mother did right was to never badmouth my father (though he deserved it several times.) To this day, she does not say a negative word about him. I think that’s the way it should be. I play by those rules anyway.
I’m starting to upload live shows to ColdplayLiveArchive.com with a detailed review of each show. I’m still figuring out a few things, but soon there will be more Coldplay than you can shake a stick at, and Chris Martin will send me an email begging me for my extensive live collection. He will fly here in his private jet, take me out to dinner at Blue, my favorite restaurant, and I will deliver his stack of DVD’s to him as I suck his cock underneath the tablecloth. I just know it :)
Well, that seems like a perfect way to end today’s journal entry. I hope you enjoy the idea of Chris Martin lovingly feeding me his cock for dinner as much as I do.
June 30th, 2008 — Bitching, Blogs, Collars, FetLife, January Seraph, Lochai, Masturbation, Shopping, Stuff and Things, Toys
It’s Monday. It kind of started off shitty. I woke up to my shoulder hurting and feeling a little grumpy about the mess our house has become. I have stressed and stressed about what I’m going to do with my career - do I apply for other teaching positions? do I just look for a secretary (administrative assistant) position? do I pursue translation and interpretation in the legal and medical fields? do I go into human resources? I *think* I am good a lot of things, so that makes the options almost too prodigious. On top of it all, I am out of my medicinal marijuana, prescribed originally for the emotional and physical trauma that resulted from my helicopter crash. This isn’t making for a good morning.
I got online and there was a sweet email from John (FetLife John). And it made me laugh out loud, for real. Yay. Things are looking up. I got to play on email back and forth with my other FetLife crush about the joys of being in demand (and demanding). Today might not suck afterall. And he may even finish my interview before I completely make an ass out of myself worshiping his cock.
Then a knock on the door. Oh noes! Monsters! Actually, it was my friendly UPS man (possibly the only not hot UPS delivery driver in Charlotte) with a nice plain brown box. Maybe it’s more DVDs and books that Garvey is sending me to review? Maybe it’s the new corset that a seamstress is sending me to model in for her publicity photos? The last feasible possibility was my new order from VibeReview.com, but they just sent it on Friday, I swear! Is the suspense killing you?
It was a nice package from VibeReview.com. I wrote all about it on Catalina Loves, but to summarize, there is the Iris, the Stubby G, the Corsette Harness (in black), the Magnificent Vibrating Glove, the Cyberglass Felicity, and Liquid Sex Personal Lubricant.
I checked everything out and I put it in nice little spot here on my desk where I can still see each item. I just can’t decide what to try first! What a perfect package of goodies! I’m a lucky, lucky, lucky girl.
Apparently Vibe Review turned my day around because then a bunch of good things happened. I got in touch with GH, who has an entire scene with MDS fucking me on his voice mail since we called him. It was good to hear that he’s been enjoying it and is looking forward to the next call. Hot! I love the idea of him listening as the filth pours out of my slutty mouth… oh myyyyy.
I also texted my friend and famous fetish model, January Seraph, and asked her if she would be into it if we call one night while we are fucking. Her response, “Absofuckinglutely!” So if we can manage to work out our schedules with a three hour time difference, we’ll have beautiful January Seraph listening as MDS violates me. With any luck it will turn her on and she’ll end up having her own lovely orgasm on the other end of the phone. Holy Shit I think I just orgasmed thinking about that. I also offered to help her out if she ever wants to make use of the phone during one of her scenes she’s shooting for her clips store - I’m always happy to shout out a few commands and humiliate a good subbie over the phone. :)
So I had to go out and about and get some medicine, as previously mentioned, so I kept my collar on and went out with it publicly. It felt very liberating, actually. It’s not my new collar, but it is pretty discreet. My friend, who joined me in my car in uptown to give me my medicine is a Dom, actually. He and I have gone round and round about how I am not his submissive and he does not have the rights he asserted to have had. This sent a clear signal and he said, “Did He make you wear that?” and I said, “No, He did not Make me wear it. I Chose to wear it out.” He told me he was incredibly jealous of my Husband and would not try to cross that boundary again. Victory is mine!
Then I talked to my friend, the one who asks me every day what I’m wearing. I haven’t heard from him in a while, so I called him and I said, “What are you wearing?” and he answered, “Nothing. What about you?” and I answered, “I’m actually fully dressed, collar and all.” We caught up and then he told me he was standing at the new house he just bought. Ha, “Standing naked at your new house with the contractor there?” Ok, so I got him on a technicality, but it was still fun. I told him that I really liked the idea of him standing there in nothing but a tool belt. He told me his birthday is Saturday. I told him that I am a firm believer in birthday blowjobs. Then I had to go… suddenly… but I’m not playing hard to get.
The rest of my drive home I spoke with someone I know who owns a chain of McDonald’s stores. I don’t even want to discuss McDonald’s at all, except to say that they need a manager for one of their stores who speaks Spanish, has management experience, can teach, can communicate, and basically is me. They pay better and have better benefits than my previous teaching job, and I don’t have to grade papers at night. I’m thinking it might be a very good solution to my career dilemma. I do make money writing, and we do own a PR business that brings in income, but neither of those provide health and dental benefits and we do have children. Besides, they don’t pay enough yet to live comfortably in Charlotte with four humans and three cats. I may have a job!
And Lochai ::dream sequence of Lochai using me like a slut:: texts saying he’ll be in touch tomorrow. Just to be clear, I’m not stalker-crazy weird over Lochai. I just have loved him for so long as an artist, and now to know him as a human and a Dom makes me weak in the knees and my mind races with fantasy.
Mr. F. is moving on the first and I’m pretty psyched because after he gets moved in I will be able to meet up with him in his new place and give him a nice housewarming cocksucking. Yum. Maybe we’ll even shoot a video of it. Another friend of mine, Mr. J works for the Panthers. I talked to him today, too. He and I have common interests. One of them includes my his black cock against the white skin of my face. Um, I am a slut.
D is driving me absolutely insane with desire - every time I get an email or an image from him I want him more. It doesn’t hurt that Thursday is just every bit as delicious and the two of them drive me more insane than I think either of them realize.
And finally… Kinkerbelle… Kinkerbelle I want to hurt. I want her to hurt me. I want to fuck her and I want her to fuck me. I want us each to wear a strap-on while we fuck in ways that only pornochicks fuck for big bucks. I want MDS to watch. I want MDS to join. I want to be fucked by her cock and then his. I want his cum dripping out of her as I lap it up like honey. I want Kinkerbelle. Bad.
June 20th, 2008 — Altered Aperture, Blogs, Bondage, Collars, Fetish, Lochai, Masturbation, Mr. and Mrs. Kink (dot com), Mz. Berlin, Photos, Recommendations, Satine Phoenix, The Week In Kink, Toys
[Photo by Altered Aperture. The Official Return of The Red Hair ::wild applause:: ]
Well, it’s official. Every Friday I’m going to do This Week In Kink for you. I’m not only going to include our blogs, but the blogs of my friends, as well. I’m also going to just pick the top TWO posts instead of THREE because the list is getting a little long. As usual, please let me know what you think.
So there you have it. This Week In Kink with a few new friends on the list. We’ll see how big this list grows!
May 26th, 2008 — Masturbation, Recommendations, Shopping, Toys
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again - everybody should have a Hitachi Magic Wand (and spring for the G-spotter attachment). Men and women alike can use the Hitachi for their pleasure or for pleasuring their partner. With the g-spotter attachment, it makes a great prostate massage toy, too.
My first g-spot orgasm was a result of the Hitachi Magic Wand and the g-spot attachment. I became a real fan of masturbating for about six months after discovering that! I was using the Hitachi about three times a day. Seriously. And I still have it! I think I’ve had my Hitachi longer than I’ve had Marky.
Well, I still use it to masturbate - that’s a given, but I also have new uses for it. I use it with clients, especially when there is a woman involved. Few things are better than holding the Hitachi to a submissive and forcing her to cum. With men, aside from using the Hitachi with the attachment for prostate stim, I also use it to put create a vibration in anything - you can hold it against a dildo, touch it against the head of his cock, or even against an inserted sound.
If you don’t own one yet, I can only shake my head and wonder why you would deny yourself. Get one and try it. The only regret you’ll have is not buying it sooner!
