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Lochai "working" at Hogtied.com

SAN FRANCISCO (August 22, 2008) – Award-winning fine art bondage photographer Lochai will take over from Matt Williams as director of Kink.com’s Hogtied.com, the company announced today.

“Hogtied was our first site and we still consider it our flagship,” said Kink.com founder and CEO Peter Acworth. “We’re very pleased to bring Lochai on to continue the Hogtied tradition. He’s one of the best-known bondage riggers around and for years he’s been out there in the community, both as a photographer and as an educator. Most importantly, he really gets what’s fun and beautiful and hot about women in bondage – he understands the Kink.com esthetic. I’m very much looking forward to working with him.”

Lochai’s inaugural update on Hogtied.com is a sizzling 56-minute scene with 22-year-old Virginian beauty Isobel Wren. Shot when Lochai was auditioning for his new role, the scene currently headlines the site, In it, Wren is placed in Lochai’s trademark Japanese-influenced rope bondage and subjected to a stunning number of screaming orgasms, including a copious squirt. Throughout, Lochai’s sardonic humor tempers the intense bondage and stimulation.

Said Lochai:

“Everything that’s done in any of the Kink.com sites is real, so it’s not like I’m acting a part. I’m actually being myself. I’m sarcastic, I’m a smart ass, I laugh during scenes and I also console when someone’s upset. I’m going to be doing my real play, my real life, within the walls of the Armory, because that’s what’s expected by the customers — and that’s what’s expected by Kink.com. I’m going to be super comfortable there, because I feel like I’m home.”

An award winning photographer whose work appears in galleries as well as in publications like The British Journal of Photography, Secret, Skin Two, Bizarre, and in his own fine art books, Lochai is equally well known as a bondage educator, teaching classes at conferences around the United States and doing public scenes in nightclubs and at fetish events. A founding director of the Photo Artisans Guild (PAG), in West Palm Beach Florida, he was also the co-founder and co-curator of the Traveling Erotic Art Show, which spent two years touring the United States. He also moderates a group on BDSM social networking site FetLife, CommUNITY Building, that seeks to build BDSM and alternative sexuality leadership skills.

Lochai takes over from longtime Hogtied.com director Matt Williams, who began directing the site in 2003. Williams was recently promoted to Kink.com’s Creative Director, and will be guiding creative development on new sites as well as Kink.com’s existing sites. “I’m looking forward to helping with the overall creative level,” said Williams. “I’m going to work with existing sites and new sites both, developing the look and feel, and sharing fantasies that I have in my head — I have great ideas for each one of our sites.”

Williams will continue to direct unscripted girl-girl erotic wrestling site UltimateSurrender.com, which he calls “my little baby.” “I’m going to hang on to that – I have some great ideas for the future.”

Lochai expressed his excitement about his new role.

“Every person who’s ever sat down in front of me in a classroom, or who has surrounded me out in a club to watch what I’m doing, has wanted this job. They want to get paid to tie up beautiful women and get them off – and that’s my job. It’s a wonderful feeling, and an affirmation that my kink pays off.”

A longtime Florida resident, Lochai will be relocating in September to the San Francisco area. He says he’ll continue his work teaching bondage and SM lifestyle classes, both at the half-dozen conferences he traditionally attends annually, and in the San Francisco area.

For more information about Lochai, visit his site Kirinawa.com or email the Kink.com Public Relations Manager at thomas@kink.com. Webmasters interested in promoting Kink.com content, including Hogtied.com, please visit www.KinkyDollars.com or email the Kink.com affiliate manager at terry@kink.com.

ABOUT HOGTIED.COM: Hogtied was the first site in the Kink.com network, directed by founder Peter Acworth from 1997 until Matt Williams took over in 2003. Updated every Tuesday, Hogtied.com offers members more than 15,000 streaming minutes and more than 84,000 photos in over 400 episodes that feature beautiful women subjected to sexual rope bondage, erotic punishment, and repeated orgasms.

ABOUT KINK.COM: San Francisco erotica studio Kink.com provides authentic fetish entertainment that seeks to demystify alternative sexualities and inspire sexual adventurers. Since the launch of its first site, Hogtied.com, in 1997, Kink.com has developed a network of premium adult sites that now operate from studios in the San Francisco Armory, a decommissioned National Guard facility with sets ranging from stark dungeons to luxurious pieds-à-terre. Kink.com also operates a free documentary site at BehindKink.com and the leading fetish affiliate network, KinkyDollars.com.

I was going to try to write a journal entry last night, but things got all fucked up.  That seems to happen a lot in my life.

I finally made my connection with my pharmacist for my herbal prescription, so I went by his place to pick that up and even took him some cookies - the real kind, made fresh and gooey.  I ate one, but only one because I have re-committed to my ridiculously strict eating program that consists of mostly not eating.

I started running again yesterday and I was really worried that it would suck, but I did run for half an hour and I ran almost the same distance I used to run, so I haven’t lost too much.  I have definitely lost muscle and gained fat as I’ve been injured at least half of this year.  That sucks.  Motivation of the even remote possibility of shooting with Lochai someday is enough motivation to make me lose the final two sizes I need to lose to be a 4.

So running with my friend, Mike like the good old days when I still taught there.  It was really fun and really good for me in a hundred different ways.  The fucker, though…  I texted him last night, “Workout tomorrow?”  and he says, “I never workout on Saturdays.”   Shit.  And it’s a Holiday Weekend.  I fucking hate holidays.  I do.  There is never any benefit to me in holidays.  There’s no mail, everything is closed, the doctors will not refill your prescriptions on weekends or holidays, and nobody’s around.

I digress…

I left my cookie friend’s house and found out that M wouldn’t be able to keep our Friday night dinner date/fireworks in uptown from his place because of some multimillion deal he’s working on.  Okay, I get it.  A multimillion dollar deal takes precedence over dinner, but fuck.  I hate making plans and having them canceled.  I understand, don’t get me wrong - no hard feelings.  I have had to cancel on him due to family obligations before, but fuck!  He is married to his job - I am married to my family.

I came home and had a million things I wanted to get done.  If I’m not going to be out doing something then I should work.  But MDS has been feeling a little left out lately and required attention, undivided put the computer and the cell phone away attention.  So with anxiety I sat and did nothing for hours.  I know it’s good for me to do that sometimes, but it seems very unproductive.

We had great sex.  I’ll write about it on Mr. and Mrs. Kink, though.   Seems a better place for it.  I did think about Lochai coming in my mouth as I came…  I’d say that’s what put me over the top.  I texted him to tell him so this morning, too.

So now it’s Saturday.  I was awakened with a cock in my mouth and a Silver Bullet on my clit.  I was forced to come twice before I could get up and start the day.   Now I have to figure out what to do first.  It’s not a matter of what to do, just what to do first.  There’s so much to do.

I need something.  I just don’t know what it is.

I’ve given a lot of thought lately to my style of domination as I’ve been working a lot on The Momme Domme.  I’m not like most Dommes.  I don’t go through all the ridiculous bullshit and high and mighty protocol crap.  In fact, I think that the same things that make me a good Momme are the same things that make me a good Domme.  In both cases, the following things are very simple, but very true:

• I demand total and complete authority.  What I say goes.  Period.  It is my responsibility to consider all involved and there is room for respectful discussion, but in the end, the decision is mine and mine alone.
• It matters as much what as is said as how it is said.
• If I give a task to be done and a time limit in which to do it, it must be done or there will be consequences.
• Permission is necessary for most activities.  Privileges are earned and can be revoked.
• Backtalk is never acceptable.
• Bratty behavior results in isolation.
• Sometimes a spanking is necessary.
• Good behavior is rewarded and praised lavishly.
• I feel tenderly and sweetly, maternal, in both cases.

So that’s it - basically I’m bossy and I’m always right.  But isn’t every Momme (Domme)?